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August 08 2012

32 “Slow Living” Inspired Ways to Savor Summer

By Mark Sisson
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As we round out the last few weeks of summer, I’ve been thinking about all the potential left in the season. Although there’s admittedly less pressure to grab hold of every last warm day in my current locale, I remember savoring those final weeks of summer in Northern New England. Time was truly of the essence, and we didn’t waste a day with both fall and school on the horizon again. No matter where we live, I think summer inspires a leisure we more readily forgo in other months when routine often has greater hold of our days. In the spirit of Primal play – and last week’s Slow Living post – here are a few (dozen) ideas for savoring the upcoming weeks. Enjoy, everyone!

  1. Have a Primal picnic. Surprise someone you love, or gather a rowdy group for a Primal inspired picnic. Throw in some Ultimate or beach volleyball, and you’ve got a party.
  2. Go for a walk in the summer rain. Grab you wellies or – even better – go barefoot. Taste the rain. Puddle stomp. Let your mind daydream in the upside reflections of the sky.
  3. Listen to the nighttime wildlife (e.g. the cicada, frogs, crickets, coyotes, etc.)
  4. For the remaining weeks of summer and early fall, pick 1-2 veggies a week that are at the peak of their harvest and go to town experimenting with recipes. Bonus: buy a slew of them at the farmer’s market while they’re cheap, and freeze or can them for later in the year.
  5. Camp.
  6. Sit around the fire at night – fire pit, campfire, bonfire, whatever you have.
  7. Host an impromptu dinner party or summer cocktail hour (al fresco of course). Gather some flowers from your garden for the table. Grill some shrimp in the shell and make a salad. String up some lights, set out some tiki torches, and let the party go well into the night.
  8. Use it as an excuse to whip up your favorite Primal-friendly/-adapted summer drinks like sangria, bloody Mary, gin and tonic, vodka lemonade, or kicked up old fashioned sun tea.
  9. Nap in a hammock.
  10. Attend an outdoor concert or play.
  11. Sleep as close to nature as you can. Even if you can’t camp on a given weekend, pitch a tent in the backyard, or sleep on the porch for a night.
  12. Have some slow style “quality time” with your partner – whenever and wherever the mood strikes (don’t get caught!).
  13. Create a piece of art – whatever you feel like doing in the moment. Don’t stifle the experience with imposed standards. Just see where your mind goes and follow it.
  14. Visit a new park in your area every weekend. Hit all the stops from wilderness areas to botanical gardens, nature centers to arboretums.
  15. Build toad or fairy houses with the kids.
  16. Mud fight!
  17. Spend a whole day (or at least an afternoon) on the water. Go surfing, rafting, water skiing, river tubing, boating, canoeing, kayaking, or any combination of the above.
  18. Have a late summer vacation? Take a day (if not the whole time) without any agenda whatsoever. Wander, poke around, park yourself somewhere and see what happens around you. Get as far away from the tourist hustle and bustle as possible and see where the locals go. Seek out the seemingly mundane, nondescript corners of the place. You might just find yourself swept up in something that will become the best memory of the whole trip.
  19. Take a vineyard tour.
  20. Have an outdoor family movie night – with old family videos. (Public libraries or other facilities sometimes rent out equipment.) Pass on some family history and personal memories. Share funny and meaningful stories late into the night.
  21. Plant something. Sure, it’s a leap of faith at this point in the season. Still, think bumper crop potential. Get in a row of lettuce, herbs, or some hearty root veggies.
  22. Meet the dawn one morning – with a hike, a yoga practice, or a early morning fishing expedition.
  23. Break out the water balloons.
  24. Sit on the beach (ocean or lake shore) with nothing but a cool drink and an indulgent novel.
  25. Spend the day among rocks. Skip stones, climb boulders, or go geode hunting.
  26. Fly a kite.
  27. Splurge on a few huge flower bouquets at the farmer’s market and decorate the house (and your office).
  28. Hang your laundry out to dry. Remember (or discover) what laundry used to smell like before dryers and dryer sheets.
  29. Build a fort (indoor or outdoor) with the kids – or for yourself.
  30. Reclaim the art of the backyard game. I’m talking the likes of croquet, frisbee golf, flag football, volleyball, horseshoes, Kubb (Viking chess), badminton, lawn darts, or outdoor bowling.
  31. Grill an entire four course meal, something totally new and challenging (pig roast, anyone?), or do a traditional New England clam bake.
  32. Spend an evening stargazing. On that note, don’t forget the upcoming Perseid meteor shower this weekend! If you’re a city dweller, get out of Dodge and see the sky the way Grok did.

Thanks for reading today, everybody. Enjoy your day – and your final weeks of summer. Be sure to leave your own ideas for making the most of the time.

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  1. Love this! Great reminder for so many of us. I really needed this right now. Thanks Mark!

    OMG first to comment?! WAT!?

  2. Great ideas Mark! I am going to make an effort to do all of these 🙂
    It might be a little early in some places, but apple picking is s favorite of mine. There’s nothing like eating a sun-warmed apple right off of the tree!

    1. Hi Mark,

      Who needs 32 ideas- let’s start with the number one problem- turn off the internet for at least 48 hours- blackberry, iphone and androids included. The whole business of speeding up is intrinsically linked to ‘cyberspeed’ emails and the perceived need to constantly be connected to ‘knowledge’..i.e.information that really isn’t necessary at all..the banter we text on, waste at lot of our time on is simply enjoyable facts that crowd our brains..and keep us from being able to do the rest of the things on your list.

      1. You nailed that totally Andrea. I am on here for business purposes. What happens is it gives me a sorry excuse to be on here too much. That is totally unhealthy. I’ll be off for 3 days starting tomorrow and I’ll bet I will hit most of Mark’s list. That’s the goal anyways.

        Cheryl

      2. you got that right!
        My wife is OBSESSED with Tv.
        Not only that, she got mad at me for not answering the phone after 11,(23:00)

  3. At first I thought, yeah right, and what do I do the with 3 year old and the 2 year old?
    After reading I thought, what could be better to do with the kids!

    1. Absolutely. The majority of the items on this list are very family friendly!

    2. I almost wish I had kids so I could make a fairy garden with them, you should really try that one! There are lots of examples online.

      1. Make a fairy garden for yourself jaime!

        We have a 4-year old and help care for the 3 kids next door, all under 5 yrs old. All I have to say is either “picnic” or “let’s make a fort!” and we’re off! Sometimes, when we’re feeling really nutty, we have a picnic IN the fort! lol

  4. I’m all on board with the “plant something” suggestion. I started a garden this summer and it has been really incredible working on it every day, watering, weeding, picking the herbs that grow (and cooking with them!).

  5. I love all of these ideas! I am super lucky to live in the mountains of Colorado, so many of these things I do on a daily basis (listening to nature, being in it, sleeping close to it…) or at least a monthly basis (camping, spending time on the water…)

    At least one of the ideas gives me blissful tingles just thinking about it: give me a beach, a cool drink, and a book and I am set!

  6. This is all great and my imagination is already running wild. I’ll have to think about this more next year. I have a 2.5 year old at home and relaxation is tough to come by.

    1. My 2 1/2 year old loves the farmers market, puddles, most of the things on this list, and you can learn a lot watching kids explore the outdoors. I find she’s a lot more self entertaining outside actually!

      1. Mine is a little hyper. Which is fine, except that we have to be a little cautious sometimes. Also, he’s being raised bilingual and his speech is delayed right now so communicating with him is difficult. True we can still do much on this list and we do, but I am excited for the possibilities next year and beyond.

        1. I’m really looking forward to the bike riding, swimming, more self reliant stage myself. Especially since I have a 4 month old as well :P. Hope it didn’t come off preachy!

        2. I have a 10 and a 4-yr-old…my 10 yr old particularly has always been a bit hyper, very moody and high strung. But being in nature, particularly when she was 3-5 yrs old, has always seemed to calm her. (Unless it’s too hot, which has been a big challenge for us this summer in the DC area.) At that age, you don’t even have to do anything but take them for a walk in the woods and hold their hands. Oh, and let them throw rocks in a lake/stream! Always a big hit with my little one. (Of course, then you do have to keep them from falling into lakes and streams or hurting themselves or you from waving around giant sticks…been there, done that. 😉 )

          And you’re totally right…the fun part is watching them grow and engage in the outdoors in a different way every year! Last time we had a decent (under 95 degrees/low-ish humidity) day, my 4 yr old played on the playground in our local (forested) park, and my 10 yr old took pictures of squirrels and the light filtering through the trees.

  7. You’re preaching to the choir, here in the Santa Cruz Mountains, my friend. We’re growing our own, we’re off the grid, we blew up our TV back in ’85, and we love sleeping under the stars this time of year! Thanks for spreading these great ideas.

    1. hi from san jose! we escape to the santa cruz mountains regularly..

  8. We could havce a picnic here in West Texas and invite 2 groups of doctors.

    One to treat heat stroke and one group for treating rattlesnake bites!!!

    1. I know, these are lovely suggestions, and I will keep them in mind for October, when the temps get below the 90s and 100s…sometimes. Right now, most of these ideas are recipes for misery, where I live!

      1. I too am really ready for Fall when i can enjoy the outdoors again- 105+ temps make summer my least favorite season- Labor Day camping trip is kinda the start of our outdoor times

        1. I was thinking this same thing. Sounds good once the thermometer drops back down to merely “insanely hot”.

        2. Clearly this is the Texas thread! haha

          I was thinking, ‘Go outside at midnight to gaze at the stars for 5 minutes and come back in to the AC when you are dripping sweat.’ 🙂

      2. Same here in Fort Worth, Cloudy and 104! I am drying my laundry outside, not paying to heat more air. I do enjoy getting out early in the morning with my dogs for their daily walk. I think October and November are our best months here.

    2. AMEN Brother! Lol! So frustrating to get up at 6 to work on our farm and it feels like a big, wet, hot blanket. Sweat pouring off of me just standing still. That’s the way we get rid of toxins here in TX!

  9. These are great ideas! Now if only summer would come to Seattle…actually, I take that back. We had summer last weekend. Now I’m all for enjoying the early days of fall!

  10. Not sure about the mud fight but I have been considering hanging a clothes line – memories of childhood and hanging it up is meditative. Then again, perhaps I’m weird. 🙂

    1. No, you’re not weird. Either that or I’m weird, too! Great company; nice to ‘meet’ you!

      1. We don’t own a dryer, so outside or by the fire (it’s winter down here in Oz) is the norm here. Most households have clotheslines in Australia, heaps of sun I guess, but dryers are more often than not the second choice. Power here in NSW has gone up by over 50% in the last few years making a line more compelling and there is nothing like the smell of line dried sheets! Enjoy your summer folks we have a few more months to go, and the daffodils are just peeping out of the soil,
        Cheers

        1. i also wonder about the stiffness. i line-dry my clothes we don’t own a dryer (live in north queensland). i add a little bit of vinegar to my rinse cycles which helps a little bit but the lint on some of my clothes and the stiffness makes me wish i could run a dryer now and again.

        2. Stop stiff clothes by using a lot less soap. I use a fabric softner on sheets and towels..I own no dryer but have a rack and clothesline hills hoist..NSW sun is all.

        3. If you have a dryer, then throw them in for 5 minutes before hanging. It takes out most of the wrinkles and stiffness. The towels are still a little “crunchy”, but personally I love them that way – not water repellant like towels dried with fabric softener

  11. Love this! Got a few of these checked off already, looking forward to the meteor shower – thanks Mark.

    For anyone in Ontario, or who plans to visit, take #19 and go to Southbrook Vineyards. They are completely bio-dynamic and organic. Amazing place, the building itself is a work in environmental engineering (and the wine’s great too)…

  12. Just went kayaking Sunday, will be camping this weekend, going to a summer market Saturday. I think I’ve got a good handle on enjoying my last days of summer (although, we in Alaska like to call it “not-winter”)…anyway, gotta take advantage while we can! Love my summer months. Great suggestions and I hope everyone gets out to play!

  13. I’m with AustinGirl. Here in Oklahoma we are living in an oven right now. None of these outdoor ideas has any appeal right now. In the fall, you bet.

    1. Yeah, I was up in Tulsa last weekend! To think I was going to hammock tent it at Keystone State park to save money on accomodations! Nahhhhh…

  14. So many of these have been on my list for this summer! I have to finish painting a forest mural in the boys room this week, then it’s camping in the yard and blueberry picking! Most others will fall into place. Thanks for the great reminder 😉

  15. Off topic, but this got me thinking whether Grok was a bit of a nomad in his days, moving south as the conditions got tougher towards the winter.

    Jack Kruse has an interesting take on this cycle, saying that (cold-adapted) humans are build to eat almost no carbs during the darker winter months.

  16. I love this list, as being a New Englander I understand that fleeting feeling that August brings. Even when I have work to do I try to bring it outside in the summer. I also have been slack lining and vowing to ride my bike anywhere I need to go.

  17. Oh this is such perfect timing. I go on vacation next week. We’re not going anywhere, just a “staycation” with my family. My one and only goal for the week is to not check work email! I need to savor the time with my family. Thanks Mark, I love these ideas!

  18. Lawn darts are illegal now! Bad choice of an outdoor game, as they truly are a primal weapon. =)

  19. Thank you so much for this list. I really needed the reminder. I plan on adding several of these to my must-do list. Particularly the ones I can share with my kids and partner. But the sunrise one – that’s going to be just for me and its going to be a run on the beach in a couple of weeks. Maybe we could have an equally awesome list for the other 3 seasons?! I can always use the inspiration.

  20. The wife and I already had plans to take the kids (ages 3, 5, 6, and 8) out on Saturday night for the meteor shower. Should be great fun!

  21. Thanks, Mark, for all those really good suggestions. Sometimes our entertainment repertoire grows a bit stale. This ought to freshen things up! 🙂

  22. Great ideas…if you don’t live in England…No possibilities for stargazing, camping,…but I like the idea for walking in the rain-perfect for the conditions this summer 😀

  23. I LOVE THIS POST!!!! Lot’s of great idea here Mark! And I agree, it’s easier to do this during summer time. This summer. I already went camping, climbing, strolling around new parks, & drawing. But I wanna make it a habit that I can carry over to during school year.

  24. Man Mark!! You sure have a handle on things. Thanks for the reminder to stop and smell the roses. Cheers!

    Shane

  25. Very timely post – here in the UK we are getting some good weather (finally)! Must try not to get too stressed out trying to fit all these slow living ideas in over the next four days!!

    Seriously though – we’ve grown a load of veggies this year and it’s great picking them and then ambling back to the house to make dinner. Very satisfying – much better than zooming to the supermarket!

  26. Ahhh, the ideas on your post all sound wonderful but I live in Las Vegas where today’s high temperature is expected to be 111 degrees!! So, the only pleasure is staying inside, in the air conditioning! But your lovely post allowed me to dream a little today, so thank you Mark!

  27. A friend of mine had a little fire ring in his backyard, just like the kind of small fire ring you might find in the backcountry, ringed with rocks. He had a small grill for it. This is what he used to barbecue. When the meal was done, you could eat dinner sitting around the campfire, right in the back yard. I wish I had one of these. It made for a truly awesome evening, sitting by the fire, having a glass of wine, just talking and enjoying the evening.

    1. Takes 10 minutes to make and the grill can be bought in a camping store, don’t forget the Billy tea!

    2. The campground where we are living this summer uses wheel hubs for their fire rings. Brilliant, we thought, for repurposing trash. Our neighbor puts a grill on his wheel hub and cooks out every meal. Most people here enjoy the evening campfires, now that the burn ban is over and the grass is green again. You know hardy Americans. Under 80 degrees? Let’s have a camp fire. Or go for a meandering from camp to camp. What creative things can you find to repurpose as a fire ring?

      1. We learned this trick from an old, OLD friend who’s being doing this all his life.

        We just cut a circle of sod out of a spot in the back yard, dig a shallow hole, pile in the firewood, and fire away! Next morning we replace the soil and top it with the sod. When we decide to use it again, the soil is nice and soft and it’s a lot easier to dig…thus encouraging frequent use. When it’s settled after the winter you don’t even know where it had been.

      2. Great repurpose grill is a brake drum from a large truck. Find one at junkyard for about $10. Peace.

  28. A great list and even better still nearly all free to do! As the saying goes ‘The best things in life aren’t things’. Just spending time outdoors in nature is a great way to rejuvenate. My kids love puddle stomping, and with the wet Summer we’ve had here in Ireland, they’ve had ample opportunity to enjoy it!

    1. Im with you on that one Derry ! And here in Derry , I think our summer has finally arrived !!
      Im wondering if you’re from the maiden city and if so , wheres the best place to get good meat etc ?

  29. Living in Texas, summer is one of the times of year that actually drives us inside rather than outside. But an evening in the hammock (with bug repellent) is always welcome.

  30. The husband and I like to pick a random park and go wander the trails and watch wildlife. It’s amazing how many people walk straight past the hundred or birds, bugs and other animals you see…
    I love pointing out wild animals to little kids though, the look of awe and wonder is amazing 🙂

  31. What a great list, Mark. Thank you.

    I feel so fortunate that the place we’re going for vacation at the end of August is conducive to just about all of these things. And we have no agenda for any part of the vacation, so I expect to get some of them in.

    Slow living is something I’ve been thinking about since you started posting about it. I want to continue it into the school year by limiting the work I do to school hours, so when my daughter gets home, I can clear my desk, turn my computer off and be accessible to her.

    I don’t mean hovering over her. Kids don’t need that. But I think what they do need, after a long school day, is a parent who’s accessible (i.e. a parent whose not engrossed in a computer screen or a cell phone).

    I’m lucky enough to be able to design my life that way, so it’s what I intend to do.

    All good thoughts and ideas here. Thanks.

  32. Perfect! As soon as it cools down a little I’m going to start checking some of these off. It’s not been crazy hot here but it’s been HUMID. Bleh.

    I love the idea of sleeping close to nature and listening to nighttime sounds. I’m petrified of being outside alone at night (too many nights staying up reading about ax murderers). Going Paleo/Primal has helped me overcome this. I’m beginning to experience the beauty of nighttime again.

  33. Funny how 50 years ago this would be just your average list of fun things to do, but now in our hyper , speed focused world its “slow living”. Great list Mark, lovely ideas all!

  34. Fantastic list! I’ve been an avid watcher of the Perseid meteor shower for years now, although I only saw it successfully once six years ago and have tried unsuccessfully since. Hopefully this year will be the year!

  35. It’s winter here in New Zealand, but look forward to doing some of these when summer arrives. Plenty of gorgeous unspoilt land to play in here 🙂

  36. We are spending the last 2 weeks of summer camping and will be able to check off most of the things on that list. It will be the perfect ending to summer!

  37. Nothing beats swimming in a natural river or stream with a reasonably good current. They are cold, musical, rocky, clear, with natural pools. You can see the pebbles and rocks on the bottom and the fish, turtles, crayfish, etc. The current is a massage, there’s no chlorine, no sharks. Remember the children’s book, “Wind in the Willows”? Like that.

  38. Now is a great time to get into fall vegetables. Go to a gardening store and ask someone there to help give you advice on what fall/early winter harvest vegetables would be good to plant right now in your area. We just got our pumpkin seeds in for Halloween and our traditional Primal holiday soups, stews, pies, and of course, delicious roasted pumpkin seeds for snacking! 🙂

  39. Nothing beats swimming in a natural river or stream with a reasonably good current. They are cold, musical, rocky, clear, with natural pools. You can see the pebbles and rocks on the bottom and the fish, turtles, crayfish, etc. The current is a massage, there’s no chlorine, no sharks. Lie in the sun on a flat rock and listen to the water. Remember the children’s book, “Wind in the Willows”? Like that.

  40. Great post Mark! Sometimes I just need to see it in writing or hear from someone for a jump start. I tend to have all these ideas in my head — “one day I’ll do that. . .” These were all simple and life-affirming things that don’t cost much and everyone can do.

    One thing we’ve done to slow down and get to know each other better is to put a couple of chairs and table on our patio and plant a garden. Even though we are in an apt, my wife and I now enjoy sunsets on the patio admiring our pathetic little crop of beets and cucumbers.:)

  41. These sound like some good suggestions, I live in Scotland we get some pretty wet days in summer and not a lot of sun. I’d love a walk in the rain but I have a broken leg at the moment, anyone got some good suggestions for making the best of it. Been working out with weights and things but all the suggestions online seem to be with the stuff I am bored with, mainly reading, gaming and watching films.

    Being cooped up on the sofa has made me frustrated and bored. I am able to move a bit but I unfortunately can’t go off and enjoy the summer as much.

  42. Love this article! Counted at least 13 accomplished in the last three weeks… Summertime in the mountains = the good life!

  43. Great ideas to enjoy the Maine summer that is rapidly evaporating. There is nothing like getting out on the ocean in a boat and feeling the wind in your face!

  44. Gosh! All those things on the list just made me cry as I sit in my office.

    1. Wow, this one describes me:

      “Sit on the beach (ocean or lake shore) with nothing but a cool drink and an indulgent novel.”

      Right now reading Julie Czerneda’s last novel of the Species (3 books) series

  45. These are great ideas. I live in so cal and I have a six year old. I’m on maternity leave with the baby, so these are great ideas.

  46. I hate my tumble dryer with a vengeance so I rarely use it and (if I can) I ALWAYS hang my laundry outside on the garden line ;-)It does smell wonderful too …

  47. Nice post, reminds me a project I have … will get some tiki torches and do a beach Aloha Party in Miami beach (where I live on the weekends); I hope many wahinies will come (ok even if they come with their haoles), will invite some friends, will share good Grok food and not so Grok beers and I will show my sledgehammer sand-hitting abilities!
    🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

  48. Could I be any more ready for summer right now?

    Bring it on Australia!

  49. 88F/31C, 6:00pm…
    I am closing my laptop now and going outside.

  50. Mark, all of the above are great ideas. But for us here in the deeeeep south, New Orleans, summer is never over. We long for the few fleeting moments of fall and winter. Love the website, keep em comin

  51. I think fall is on its way here in SD. It was only 72 and a cool breeze today. No time for fall planting, if its not already in. But there is always the farmers markets.
    We have started back to school so time is limited to the weekends again.

  52. I can do slow style quality time. If we do get caught, I’m not even going to blame you, Mark.

  53. My 9 year old daughter knows the word postprandial now. I say, after a big dinner… “It’s so lovely and light out.” “Yeah Mama, time for our postprandial walk.” We just mosey for a half hour.

    Tonight, a Paleo Living meetup group I’m part of had a wonderful potluck in one member’s back yard. We sat and told stories and laughed our heads off until we were sitting in the darkness.

  54. I think I have the mud fight one taken care of… running a Mudathlon 5k obstacle course this weekend 😉

  55. Pick blackberries in the wild for free, in the UK blackberry season has started a bit early (sooo much rain!) so am starting to fill the freezer now. Perfect excuse to go out for a walk each evening too.

  56. Grew up in Georgis, USA. Summer got so hot we didn’t want to move much. We read books. Summer reading was a big deal. Still is for me. A real book not an e-book. reading in a hammock often brings on a nap. Reading on a quilt on the grass under a shade tree may do the same thing.
    Often, my friends and I, would meet on the quilt with our sandwiches, drinks, and books. Eat, chat, read with friends. Summers were great.
    Still are!

  57. Please don’t play lawn darts if you are indulging in your accasional glass or two of red wine though, that would not make for a pleasant ER trip 😀

  58. Not many Coyotes in Brighton UK tho I did bump into a fox almost on my own doorstep yesterday. No crickets, frogs or cicadas either… perhaps I can get a recording

  59. I love to stargaze. My boyfriend and I love to sit outside and stargaze and talk about whatever. This week will be difficult because the fires in N Utah are pretty severe. This morning driving to work, we could see the flames on the hills. I guess we could easily accomplish #6, sit around the fire.
    I am hoping for a bike ride on the road by the Great Salt Lake this Saturday morning, as long as the weather holds. It is getting cool in the mornings and the days are getting shorter.

  60. Beautiful. Reading this while I sit on the deck in the dark (save the light emitted from this contraption!), listening to a chorus of nearby and far-off cicadas, feeling the wind shift to the north for some much appreciated cool air. Life (outside) is good. 🙂

  61. I learned many years ago that I required and preferred a slower pace of life than most. I’m sure many people view my life as boring but oh we’ll. I love a slow, relaxed pace with a LOT of down time. I hike, work, hang out, and the weekends are reserved for fun and relaxation. No yard or house work allowed!

  62. I’ve set upon a community garden in this city. (gimme a break, can’t really afford to buy the stuff all the time). Tomatoes galore! The cherry tomatoes are so delicious I almost want to type this obnoxiously in CAPS.

  63. Regarding sleeping close to nature:
    Last night I camped by a lakeside, low-lying clouds covered the sky and lightning repeatedly illuminated them from within and above, with no thunder.

  64. Was this one thought I just for me?

    Build toad or fairy houses with the kids.

    1. I feel a bit guilty now, but when I was younger I used to dig holes in sand and catch a bunch of frogs and/or toads, then imprison them in the holes, usually with my brother. Often I’d stick little twigs and broken sticks in the sides to look like spikes in a dungeon wall. It was lots of fun. I kept the frogs in buckets too, then let them go when I got bored.. or at the worst, stood on the end of the dock and threw them as far as I could out into the lake to watch the disturbance in the water of a big fish gobbling them up, like National Geographic videos in real life. Suppose I may have had some issues.
      One time my brother and I caught a bunch of fish, filled a bucket with them so they could barely swim around. We forgot about them over lunch and when we went to check on them again there was a strong stench of dead fish as that’s what they then were.
      Maybe that’s why I keep getting arrested.. old karmic backlashes.

  65. Planting something would be great, but cropping is always an option. 😉
    Today I got a free big-ass salad: swiss chard, tomatoes, some baby beets and carrots, some sort of melon that was almost the size of my head, and eggplant, which I can’t remember having had before – I’ll try it out later. Library’s closing, I’m off to push my shopping cart of food a marathon distance under the night sky before I change my mind!

  66. The wife & I got to do some slow living this last weekend. Our friends run a small-scale organic pig farm, and they asked us to ‘pig sit’ while they took a vacation. We were up with the sunrise, feeding and playing with the pigs (pigs are hilarious, by the way), taking long walks through the valley, watching deer from the back porch, practicing archery, leatherworking, making supper out of what we picked from the garden, and counting shooting stars at night as they streaked across the milky way – how often can a city dweller see the milky way? We even got some bi-phasic sleep. No internet, no phones (no cell phone service!), no tv, no news, no olympics, and no stressing out. It was hard to come back, but we both felt the difference it made in our normal lives – like a re-set button had been pushed, and emotional toxins had been drained from our systems. Half the fun is watching people’s faces when they ask “What did you guys do for your anniversary?”, and we say “We went to work on a pig farm!” (it just happened to fall on that weekend)
    Sorry for the lengthy post, just wanted to brag about how lucky we are. Oh, everyone: read some Wendell Berry, if you haven’t yet.

  67. Nice tips! 🙂

    I hate doing the laundry, but I love when it has been outside and you can smell the sun, fresh air and flowers in the clothes.