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29 Jan

It’s Time to “Get Real”

Dear readers, it’s time to get real.

I realize that most of you probably don’t think you need a lecture. You may not need any further motivation. You’re eating good, whole foods, getting daily exercise, and things are going well. For the most part, Grok gazes upon you with twinkling, approving eyes. But what of newcomers? What of the average doughy citizen happily bumbling along in blissful ignorance, unaware that his or her dietary habits and devotion to Conventional Wisdom might actually be counterproductive to those goals implicit in all forms of life, great or small? Survival, contentedness, and prosperity. Surely he deserves a harsh check of reality.

And even Grok stumbles. Even the most zealous adherents of the Primal Blueprint falter, or even relapse. Maybe they start taking advantage of the office snack stash on a regular basis. A few Twix can’t hurt, right? (Every day? Yeah, they can.) Or maybe they swing by the drive-thru because they put off grocery shopping that week. (Enjoy your microwaved pseudo-meat product flanked by enriched flour patties and plastic cheese.) Hell, even I’ve made that split-second decision – half-out the door, bedecked in workout gear, mind dreading the pain to come – to put off exercise for momentary comfort.

There’s nothing wrong with the occasional foray into our old ways, especially if the situation necessitates it (starving on a business trip in some far-off town with nothing but fast food joints open, or taking a day off to rest an overworked body). Just be wary of man’s unique ability to justify anything. We’ll eat vegetables chips and swear they’re healthy. We’ll order a light Frappucino and convince ourselves it’s cool (never mind that sugary sweet syrup concoction coating your mouth afterward). Call it self-delusion, cognitive dissonance, or just plain lying to yourself – we all do it, we’re great at it, it’s a coping mechanism, but it’s ultimately harmful and impedes progress in the Primal Blueprint. Because once we justify and rationalize a counterproductive behavior, we’re all the more likely to continue said behavior.

“Just one more day…”

“Just this once…”

“Last time. Promise…”

Sound familiar? When you’re promising stuff to yourself and convincing yourself that the lies you’re spewing are to be trusted (and falling for it!)… it’s time to GET REAL.

Consider this, then, a wake-up call. (If you’re diligent and secure, exempt yourself – but even then, you’d be selling yourself short. There’s always room for improvement. Thinking otherwise leads to stagnation.) A wake up call to the beginners, a wake up call to our most loyal readers. Let’s even consider it a wake up call to me, Mark, to get and stay serious about eating right and working out correctly. Following the direction of our evolutionary genetics is a beautifully simple endeavor, but it takes diligence and dedication nonetheless.

Are you prepared to re-up on the Primal Blueprint? If so, these should help you maintain composure and stay the course.

Get Real Meat

Eat real, actual meat. You want a slab of beef untouched by preservatives, by antibiotics, by hormones, and by soy feed. You want a whole roasted chicken so you can crack open the bones and suck the marrow. Eat clean, wild fish and pick out the rib bones. Most importantly, don’t try to fool yourself into thinking that greasy little Slim Jim you picked up at the gas station on the way home from work that oozes slimy nitrites with every bite is real meat. Nor are, for that matter, the treated cold cuts, the bargain bin bacon that miraculously survives for months in your fridge, and that pepperoni you pick off your spouse’s pizza. Get real meat, folks.

Get Real Vegetables

Don’t eat corn (on the cob, popped, or otherwise prepared – it’s actually a grain!), potatoes (although sweet potatoes and yams are decent in moderation), vegetable tempura (don’t let that flaky, crispy batter fool you), or veggie chips (the chubby vegetarian’s best friend). And President Reagan may have once proclaimed it a vegetable, but ketchup is definitely not a good choice – it’s loaded with so much corn syrup, sodium, and other pseudo-foods that the tomato can scarcely be detected. Instead, load up on the stuff that you know to be good. Broccoli, greens of all kinds, cauliflower (mash it up for a superior potato substitute), carrots (hold the cake), peppers, tomatoes (real ones), squash, and eggplant (among numerous others) work quite well.

Get Real Fruit

And get realistic amounts of it. Fruit was a luxury for Grok, a seasonal delicacy. He wasn’t slurping sherbet-based smoothies every morning, nor was he munching on apples engineered for maximum sugar content. When you eat fruit try to stick to organic. Rather than drink juice or smoothies (albeit, a better choice), try to eat whole fruits. They’ll fill you up faster. Also go easy on the dried fruit; it’s great in a pinch and on hikes (mixed with nuts), but you’ll fill up on sugar before you notice it because it’s so concentrated. As always, berries are best.

Get Real Nuts

Lose the peanuts, the candy-coated almonds, the caramel-fudge-encrusted macadamia nuts, those clusters of candy and nuts masquerading as healthy snacks (they may have exotic spices like anise and cayenne, but they’re still covered in a fine sheen of syrup). Eat real nuts and seeds instead: almonds, walnuts, pecans, pumpkin, sunflower, hemp. And please – do not eat those dried crispy soybeans.

Get Real Fat

Though that header could be easily misconstrued, what I mean is that you need to get real sources of good fat in your diet. Avoid the processed, hydrogenated (partially or totally), trans garbage. You should be eating real animal fat (lard, tallow), olive oil and fats from avocados, eggs, nuts, seeds, and good cuts of meat (eat that crispy chicken skin!). If you’ve bought into the widespread ridiculous fear of fat in favor of artificial vegetable oils, margarines, and other disgusting lab creations, you need to get real.

Get Real About Grains

CW likes to tout grains as “the staff of life” – the foundation for the human diet. Deep down, you know better. You know that the best alternative to grains is eating real food our bodies were designed to eat. Meat, nuts, seeds, vegetables, fruits, and fats are highly superior to grains, and they don’t require loads of processing, heating, pressing, fermenting, soaking, or any other tampering just to be digestible. Get real about the Primal Blueprint, stay off the grains for a few months, and you’ll forget all about your former masters.

Get Real Workouts

The success and effectiveness of your workout depends on the enthusiasm with which it’s assailed. Don’t half ass your sprint day at 60% intensity when you know you need to be going 100%. Don’t show up at the gym when you’re supposed to max your squat if you’re not serious about it. Use these days for rest, play or some low level aerobic activity (think long walks/hikes or an easy bike ride) instead and you’ll still be perfectly Primal. Then, when you’re ready, regroup and give it your all. Otherwise, malaise or even injury can easily set in. Get real about what you’re up for, then do it! Oh, and if you’re counting your walk out to your mailbox and back as your workout of the day you seriously need to get real.

Get Real About Your Goals

First of all, get some real goals. Get out a piece of paper (or blog, or Word doc, whatever) and figure out what you’re working toward. Be honest with yourself, and don’t expect the impossible. I am a strong believer in one’s ability to control their gene expression, reprogram their body, and become a healthier individual, but you aren’t going to sprout a few more inches no matter how many reps you do or vegetables you eat.

That said, never sell yourself short. Push yourself to the limit, and don’t use common excuses – “most of my family is slightly overweight” or “my dad never was really that muscular” or “I’m too old to start over” – to avoid making changes in your life. Your ability to seize control of your life, your body, and your health is real. You just have to do it. Ewald (Otto’s identical twin) did.

I hope all of this wasn’t too harsh. Chalk it up to a little tough love follow-up to yesterday’s “Excuses” post. I think it’s important to have a call to action every now and then. And it’s not like I told you something you didn’t know. You know these are the keys to living a long, healthy life. You know eating the right food and getting daily exercise will pay dividends – today, tomorrow, and in thirty years. Don’t relegate yourself to a future of walkers, brittle bones, sagging guts (and spirits), and doctor visits, all because it was easier to delude yourself and take the easy route. Instead, get real about your abilities, about your goals, about your lifestyle, and about your body.

Good luck!

Further Reading:

Egg Purchasing Guide

Salmon: Factory Farm vs. Wild

Dear Mark: Is Flax Bad?

You want comments? We got comments:

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  1. The nutrition guide was funded by the agricultural group here in Canada, which is one of the reason to why they recommend so much grains.

    Jeff wrote on November 10th, 2010
  2. Great post! Just what I needed! A slap in the face to view my destructive habits from an outsider standpoint. Off to go eat some kind of primal healthy breakfast. Thanks!

    Dana wrote on November 24th, 2010
  3. I am 45 195 lbs diabetic. I stated working of doing cross fit about a month ago. I slowly started scaling down the workout I am losing inches but I am not loseing weight. I am very eager to get health as I want to be around for my kids and grand kids. Will the pounds come off if I keep the 5 on 2 off crossfit and I have drastically changed my diet to more protien with every meak mor veggies and no sugar and snacks. Just weighed and was really bummed the scale has no moved , I have lost inches and people say I am having results by what they see..

    joanye wrote on January 28th, 2011
  4. wow I should have edited that . I am sorry please excuse the mistakes.

    joanye wrote on January 28th, 2011
  5. Bruce, this is like a wake up call for everyone! I think a lot of the food we eat today is too unnatural and processed. And it seems that ppl are throwing money into crap diets and weird nutrition and what nots..Sadly enough the media and the big guys are spreading disinformation about this.

    Bryan wrote on January 31st, 2011
  6. LOVED what you said about just doing some less active exercise when you are just not up for it. Last year, I got to the point, by being easy with myself, where I actually LOOKED FORWARD TO my more serious workouts. That’s when it feels SO good!

    Meredith Young wrote on July 4th, 2011
  7. I loved this post since it immediately helped me get back on track. I’ve been primal since June but fell in with the beer and burger crowd at work over the last two weeks. This post snapped me back to attention and I feel so much better now. Thanks Mark!

    Mary wrote on September 27th, 2011
  8. I really like that this is a top post on the front page, so I can find it often. I can handle most of the primal lifestyle, but I’m a little worried about the morning smoothie. I make smoothies out of 1 scoop whey powder (with stevia), 1/3 cup plain yogurt, and 2/3 cup berries which I picked myself. I don’t want to give those up.

    oxide wrote on October 10th, 2011
  9. What’s with all the whining and crying about the “agressive tone” of this post? Geez. I am a fairly long time reading and now I have finally posted. Mark and his blog are setup in the most follower friendly way that one could imagine. One poster said something about maybe being “scared away” if he were a new reader. Sheesh. THERE is the problem RIGHT THERE with today’s modern American populace.

    How could someone not feel unmitigated shame at not being able to handle simple truths? And pardon the PB pun, but how bad has it gotten when even our information (as opposed to our diet) has to be sugar coated?

    The entire POINT of this post, as well as this blog, is to shoot straight. Why would anyone not welcome that? Life was never meant to be the fun, cake walk merry-go-round that most of us would like. However, with a little dilligence, honesty and accountability, we can all make the most of things.

    Sometimes a boot up the bum is just what someone needs. Some of you overly sensitive posters should be in line for that.

    bigmyc wrote on April 18th, 2012
  10. Thanks for the “reminder,” which was not considered harsh by my standards, just a “reality check.” I live my life by the 80/20 Rule…80% of the time I am good and 20% are my off days. When you get off course don’t put yourself down dust yourself up and get back on course!

    Rochelle wrote on May 23rd, 2012
  11. I have half of it right, after just having a smoothie half an hour ago, made with avocados and berries but
    and a big but

    i had a jaffa cake with it!

    elaine wrote on June 4th, 2012
  12. The most athletic man alive today looks pretty much the same ☺

    Bubby wrote on July 17th, 2012
  13. Loving the tough love, Mark! Keep up the GREAT work and words of wisdom and encouragement!

    Edible Harmony wrote on August 14th, 2012
  14. Smack! I needed that one, dude. It is so easy to stop in and grab a Slim Jim and a Red Bull for a snack instead of a piece of fruit or nuts….

    I needed that reminder-thanks

    CJ wrote on March 14th, 2013
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  16. Mark,
    I recently bought your PB book and follow MDA quite regularly.Before buying the bookand reading MDA ,I have lost 60 lbs,but would like to lose some more.

    My question is when you eat a high fat diet and are fat adapted how can you lose weight? Won’t the fat you eat replace the fat you burned?Like when you eat carbs don’t you have to first deplete the glycogen before you can burn fat .Isn’t it the same for fat
    Enlighten me

    Rob wrote on September 4th, 2014

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