Is this something that is causing pain, or is it just annoying to you? Are there any functional problems? Some of the apathy that you get from Doctors is that any more than rehab/PT would probably be worse than living with what you have. If there truly is a misalignment or deformity of the bone the only recourse is either live with it or surgery, and surgery would likely leave you worse off than you are. Or at best in the same position as you are already in.
Have you tried back squats? I have some hip and lower back issues that are greatly relieved by squats.