Can you define "grow up" more specifically? When I see peoples' lips mouth these words, I always hear, "resign and subordinate your behavior and needs to that of the economic demands of the ruling class."
haha oh Wilton you've done it again
"Ah, those endless forests, and their horror-haunted gloom! For what eternities have I wandered through them, a timid, hunted creature, starting at the least sound, frightened of my own shadow, keyed-up, ever alert and vigilant, ready on the instant to dash away in mad flight for my life. For I was the prey of all manner of fierce life that dwelt in the forest, and it was in ecstasies of fear that I fled before the hunting monsters."
Jack london, "Before Adam"