First, 56 pounds in two years doesn't suck. You could lose the last 30 by April at that rate. A whole lot better than folks who lose 100 pounds in six months only to put it all back on in a year.
But no, I've never felt like the middle child. I was a first born. I feel like someone put an anal probe in me at birth, and someone has been commenting on my successes and failures since then. We all have our crosses, from being ignored because we aren't first or last, to being singled out as first or last to fulfill the dreams our parents/relatives didn't fulfill for themselves. The only solution for me is to live >2000 miles away from family which is kind of a drag since I really like the East Coast.
"Right is right, even if no one is doing it; wrong is wrong, even if everyone is doing it." - St. Augustine