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    unless you mean the nutrider impulse of the other men, who just, as though by instinct, adopt her boyfriend's interests.

    Fuck them though- that is pussy shit and there is no denying it. I definitely wasn't calling attention to this to look like a knight in shining armor...I would fight naked and grease myself to deflect blows instead.

    My point is, I have been around her on more than one social occassion, and even thought both, "She looks lovely" and "Aw she looks so bored," but have been physically prevented from engaging her in conversation because of how men treat her relationship. She is like a prisoner princess lol
    "Ah, those endless forests, and their horror-haunted gloom! For what eternities have I wandered through them, a timid, hunted creature, starting at the least sound, frightened of my own shadow, keyed-up, ever alert and vigilant, ready on the instant to dash away in mad flight for my life. For I was the prey of all manner of fierce life that dwelt in the forest, and it was in ecstasies of fear that I fled before the hunting monsters."

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    Quote Originally Posted by little vase View Post
    Mr.Perfidy should be sending you PMs instead of posting all of this. The guy doesn't seem to have healthy boundaries, and nope, I don't trust him. But once again we're all talking about him so I'm sure he's as happy as a fly on shit.
    To be fair, Diene started this thread...
    "I think the basic anti-aging diet is also the best diet for prevention and treatment of diabetes, scleroderma, and the various "connective tissue diseases." This would emphasize high protein, low unsaturated fats, low iron, and high antioxidant consumption, with a moderate or low starch consumption.

    In practice, this means that a major part of the diet should be milk, cheese, eggs, shellfish, fruits and coconut oil, with vitamin E and salt as the safest supplements."

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    I gotta say this whole thing is entertaining the crap out of me, although I do feel a bit sorry for diene.

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    I feel very sorry for Mrs Perfidy tbh
    I don't ask that you like me - all I ask is that you respect my life experiences and i will do the same.

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    Mr. P,

    Wtf? Have you watched too many Disney movies of princesses in need of saving? Diene chose to stay in the relationship (& around her friends) this long not bc she is "enslaved." She is a smart adult woman. She doesn't need you to fight her battles or to free her, for god's sake.

    Just a brief conversation with you makes it clear why her friends keep her away from you. You sound a bit unbalanced and obsessed, quite frankly.

    Eta: saying all the other guys are like pawns in fear of the rich dude is in fact dissing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MIstressKiki View Post
    I feel very sorry for Mrs Perfidy tbh
    Yeah, but to be fair, she signed that contract on the dotted line. Sounds like diene's at best a second-degree acquaintance. I pity them both.

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    I have to say, while I do find Mr. Perfidy's rhetoric and outlook... unusual, I've never once seen him write something inflammatory or abusive towards another person on MDA. I think that counts for something, and I can't say that for many other people here (myself included).

    I don't think anyone needs to feel sorry for Diene - she started this thread and it was funny... until mention of the FB invite.. Now it is getting a little creepy...
    "I think the basic anti-aging diet is also the best diet for prevention and treatment of diabetes, scleroderma, and the various "connective tissue diseases." This would emphasize high protein, low unsaturated fats, low iron, and high antioxidant consumption, with a moderate or low starch consumption.

    In practice, this means that a major part of the diet should be milk, cheese, eggs, shellfish, fruits and coconut oil, with vitamin E and salt as the safest supplements."

    - Ray Peat

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    Quote Originally Posted by little vase View Post
    This ^

    I honestly can't tell by the back and forth here exactly what's going on and if you're ok with all of this, diene. How did it come to your attn that he knows you? Mr.Perfidy should be sending you PMs instead of posting all of this. The guy doesn't seem to have healthy boundaries, and nope, I don't trust him. But once again we're all talking about him so I'm sure he's as happy as a fly on shit.
    YB is right. I did start the thread, and he did PM me. That's how we realized that we have mutual friends. When I told him my real name, I didn't think that we actually ran in the same circles cuz he didn't know someone whom I thought everyone in our circle knew. Turns out that we run in different but overlapping circles, I guess.

    Quote Originally Posted by turquoisepassion View Post
    Mr. P,

    Wtf? Have you watched too many Disney movies of princesses in need of saving? Diene chose to stay in the relationship (& around her friends) this long not bc she is "enslaved." She is a smart adult woman. She doesn't need you to fight her battles or to free her, for god's sake.
    Yes, I definitely don't need saving.

    This is all really crazy to me. Wtf. I guess it's a small world?

    Too many libertarians are also into paleo/primal. It's probably not smart for me to post here. But I love it here so very, very much!

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    Mr. P,

    Wtf? Have you watched too many Disney movies of princesses in need of saving? Diene chose to stay in the relationship this long not bc she is "enslaved." She is a smart adult woman. She doesn't need you to fight her battles or to free her, for god's sake.

    Just a brief conversation with you makes it clear why her friends keep her away from you.

    I don't think you understand what I am talking about...

    They aren't really "her" friends, to start (they also remain nameless- I wasn't "trashing" them as individuals, but rather that behavior, which is common in all circles)- they are, at least as I understood it, friends with her boyfriend. And that is a stretch; we all know each other through different political activism and clubs and shit. I was talking about them from the perspective that they are actually my friends who also know her and her boyfriend.

    So, MY friends- when her name is mentioned, the mood changes. It becomes awkward, and people look for a way to change the subject, or, they say some kind of status-affirmation about her boyfriend. That's because they want her, and also, admire her boyfriend's wealth and status. So, in order to not upset his imagined ire, as he enjoys superior status, they just kinda kick the ground and change the subject, rather than sing any praises beyond "She's so cool."

    Now, that is if she comes up in her absence; the few times I have been around her, those same friends, or men just like them, literally physically block approach of her- it has nothing to do with blocking ME from her. It's normal to drive males away from a superior-status male in his defense, so as to invite his approval, and so as to dodge his teeth.

    They just adopt her boyfriend's interests as their own. Suddenly his relationship with her is important to them. She therefore becomes "captive" in a sense, because those men will make every effort to deny or silence any feelings toward her. I don't believe that I ever talked about physically taking her anywhere- I said that I wasn't even willing to invite resistance from the men in question, even so much as having to say "excuse me." Just something I noticed when out and about.

    This is really very common everywhere and I do not understand why you are making it about me.

    You sound a bit unbalanced and obsessed, quite frankly.
    well at this point I am just having fun with it because this is funny to me
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    Quote Originally Posted by YogaBare View Post
    I have to say, while I do find Mr. Perfidy's rhetoric and outlook... unusual, I've never once seen him write something inflammatory or abusive towards another person on MDA. I think that counts for something, and I can't say that for many other people here (myself included).

    I don't think anyone needs to feel sorry for Diene - she started this thread and it was funny... until mention of the FB invite.. Now it is getting a little creepy...
    Well, to be fair again, I did ask him if we were fb friends. And we were talking about facebook in PMs. Sorry, my conversation with Mr. P was weird cuz it was simultaneously happening on here and in PMs.

    But it's okay. We're fb friends now. We have mutual friends. It's really not that weird or creepy.

    I've decided to trust him not to tell everyone.

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