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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr.Perfidy View Post
    You left out- only lunatics think that being happy all the time is even possible, let alone a normal goal.
    As an individual? Yes, it's hard to stay continually happy.
    As a couple? We've been continually happy for three years (ish) now. And counting. All he provides is joy and pleasure.
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    I get blunter and more narcissistic by the day.
    I'd apologize, but...

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    Kochin, I respect your views on marriage but it's important to understand that everyone has their own way of approaching marriage. My husband and I are ROCK SOLID. Even if I had to have a boring-ass three hour conversation about my forum etiquette it wouldn't change a single thing about the permanence of our relationship. He and I are end-game players. This stuff is petty when you can see yourself on your deathbed surrounded by your devoted spouse and children, grandchildren and great grand children. Open your mind just a little and accept other people are not you.


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    So It Turns out that Mr. Perfidy and I...

    I actually just wanted to create a diversion so Diene could get out


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    ETA: nevermind, I didn't see Diene had commented during all this clustercuss of posts flyin'
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    Quote Originally Posted by moluv View Post
    Kochin, I respect your views on marriage but it's important to understand that everyone has their own way of approaching marriage. My husband and I are ROCK SOLID. Even if I had to have a boring-ass three hour conversation about my forum etiquette it wouldn't change a single thing about the permanence of our relationship. He and I are end-game players. This stuff is petty when you can see yourself on your deathbed surrounded by your devoted spouse and children, grandchildren and great grand children. Open your mind just a little and accept other people are not you.
    Then good for you. If that's what you enjoy, then enjoy it.
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    She can save herself!!

    Kochin you know I started a new thread for you to discuss this there?
    "Ah, those endless forests, and their horror-haunted gloom! For what eternities have I wandered through them, a timid, hunted creature, starting at the least sound, frightened of my own shadow, keyed-up, ever alert and vigilant, ready on the instant to dash away in mad flight for my life. For I was the prey of all manner of fierce life that dwelt in the forest, and it was in ecstasies of fear that I fled before the hunting monsters."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr.Perfidy View Post
    She can save herself!!

    Kochin you know I started a new thread for you to discuss this there?
    Meh. I still don't understand it and probably never will. Naught so queer as folk.
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    I'd apologize, but...

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    I'm actually in an open relationship, but I still wouldn't want yoga guy seeing my posts. Words on a screen don't evaporate on the ear - they're burnt into the eye, and can be interpreted as more important than they are by someone who's not family with internet communities. It would be like allowing him to listen to my phone conversations, or video tape all my interactions with the people I meet.

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    Do the police have reason to run your name a lot? Now your back to creepy stalker. Probably smothering women in tasteless 70s furniture.
    LOL. I like you
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    maybe once you read my illuminating breakfast smiles koan
    "Ah, those endless forests, and their horror-haunted gloom! For what eternities have I wandered through them, a timid, hunted creature, starting at the least sound, frightened of my own shadow, keyed-up, ever alert and vigilant, ready on the instant to dash away in mad flight for my life. For I was the prey of all manner of fierce life that dwelt in the forest, and it was in ecstasies of fear that I fled before the hunting monsters."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kochin View Post
    But why start it in the first place? All those problems arise from incompatibilities that were already there. Why settle for the sake of settling?
    Omg. Really?

    -love can be true at first, then die down after a few years. It is natural and evolutionary.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blacksmith View Post
    Do the police have reason to run your name a lot? Now your back to creepy stalker. Probably smothering women in tasteless 70s furniture.
    They do, actually, though it hasn't really happened except this week since I won that election.
    "Ah, those endless forests, and their horror-haunted gloom! For what eternities have I wandered through them, a timid, hunted creature, starting at the least sound, frightened of my own shadow, keyed-up, ever alert and vigilant, ready on the instant to dash away in mad flight for my life. For I was the prey of all manner of fierce life that dwelt in the forest, and it was in ecstasies of fear that I fled before the hunting monsters."

    Jack london, "Before Adam"

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