Please please please provide her with some information about the harm of soy :\ (Hopefully from a neutral source; I know they get suspicious if the organization promotes consumption of meat, but it seems they are the only ones alert to the problems!) If she eats a lot of it, just getting rid of that could help halt the damage she's doing, especially since vegans tend to go overboard on the processed forms of soy (ie. fake deli meat, fake hot dogs, fake sausages, soy milk, soy puddings/yogurts, etc.). That stuff is awful and shouldn't be available to buy, much less eat I feel so sad when I learn of people whose diets are based around this form of soy, like my good friend out west whose daughter (who is all of 3 years old) was/is on soy formula and has to be supplemented with iron I mean, if your baby is lacking iron and you have a good idea why (ie. vegan, soy-based diet), there's a problem! Supplemental iron is harsh. Ugh, it breaks my heart but I can't say anything because my friend is an ethical vegan and I just try to avoid the topic of food altogether. I fear her daughter is going to end up with a digestive or reproductive disease, depressed thyroid function, etc. I was a teenager when I got heavily into this kind of soy and it damaged me enough, I can't imagine what someone would suffer through consuming this damaging stuff right from their earliest years.