To find out the motivation ways I ordered an analysis here: Individual personality analysis | Reveal Myself. They told me what I was doing wrong and how I could change it. They answered my additional questions about motivation. Since then I was able to work, stay motivated, and spare enough money to attend college courses.
About your motivation to not look pregnant at your friend's wedding - that strikes me as somewhat negative. It may well help you get started on this plan, but it won't be enough on it's own to keep you on it. Fortunately for me, eating (and exercising etc) primally feels so good that it becomes a reason in itself to keep going. There are virtually no negatives. I hope you will find the same, in the not-too=distant future.
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