I think I've had a lot of similar ones to you, Kochin.
1.- My eating-disorder-mind doesn't activate before every meal.
I feel a lot more calm around food myself. I don't feel bad about eating a nourishing meal. I feel good about it.
2.- I used to look for foods that were low in kcals and buy the cheapest ones in bulk as my 'staples'.
I used to believe that I should try not to eat any real food until dinner time. The stupid result of that was I ate junk during the day and dinner was the only meal with actual food in it. Now I eat real food at every meal. My staples are roots, leaves and meat.
3.- I no longer take pride in 'vegetarian days'.
Me neither! They are a disappointment.
4.- I don't consider feasting on meat a 'binge' anymore.
Me neither! I used to think meat was nutritionally void. How wrong I was! I consider it my duty to myself to eat meat at nearly every meal.
5.- I don't worry when I skip meals.
I don't skip meals often, but I don't worry so much either.
6.- I don't jump at the opportunity for free-food anymore.
I turn it down almost all the time because it's almost always crap.
Things that haven't changed:
1.- When I go to an all-you-can-eat, it's all-I-can-eat. Period.
Oh yeah, I eat big at all-you-can-eat situations. Unless there's nothing to eat, then I'm very disappointed. I'll eat a huge pile of olives and cheese if I have to.
2.- I feel guilty after eating something 'bad'.
I get this less, but yeah, I still feel this from time-to-time.
Female, 5'3", 48, Starting weight: 163lbs. Current weight: 135.
Starting squat: 45lbs. Current squat: 145 x 4.