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Ill marry anyone in the UK or EU so I can have the legal right to work there. Call it a business contract, I promise I'm not that annoying.
Surprisingly I have had any offers yet lol
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The first time I read about that was the death knell of my identification with contemporary feminism. I thought "This; this right here is why people make fun of feminists." And it just went downhill from there. "All exercise is self-imposed torture in pursuit of a fascistic beauty ideal" was the day I closed the browser and stopped calling myself a feminist.
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Don't say you're looking for fwb or a gf, just say you're looking for so done with a great personality and loves life so you can share it with them.
Be patient, pay attention to all red flags, don't be the first one totals about sex or intimacy, be vague and mysterious but not creepy (don't lie tho), let her be the first to ask to meet or exchange numbers, and pick a public place for a meeting you think she would be most comfortable (no longer than an hour for too many reasons to list).
Ps, look at as many profiles as possible, women always check who looked at them, do t message them, often they'll message you first if they're interested. This will give you a good idea of how to send the best messages to get a bite.
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Starting Date: Dec 18, 2010
Starting Weight: 294 pounds
Current Weight: 235 pounds
Goal Weight: 195 pounds
I feel like all the feminists I ever knew were just angry because they could not attract men. They wanted to put no effort into their appearance or charm. I have a friend that *hates men* and she is fat and frumpy, won't dress nicely and just talks about her dogs. Men are "assholes" and "shmucks". She reminds me of the guys with manboobs and a Nintendo remote glued to their hands that call all women "sluts" and "shallow" because they can't get dates. But she gets to be called a "feminist" and they are just losers.However, I don't like to admit it because it seems that current feminism consists primarily of accusations of "slut-shaming" and whining about the beauty ideal/banging the fat acceptance drum.
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As for the whole feminist thing, it is like much else - starts as a good idea then goes crazy. Women are less than equal, feminism means making them equal. Yay. Minorities are oppressed civil rights groups etc fight to make them equal - Yay! Same with gay rights groups, and whatever else rights groups. The problem comes when all-in-all that equality is reached and suddenly said groups are left with no meaning or purpose and the reasonable types smile, pat each other on the back, say 'job well done' and go off to do whatever it is they do. This leaves the kooks to make the movement look bad (pretty much every movement not feminism exclusively.) Feminists did some great things. Now they are perceived as man hating harpies. The NAACP did some great things. Now they are perceived as a group that hates whites. Unions were awesome back in the day but now many see them as lazy sonsabitches who want to kill American manufacturing so they can keep their 6 coffee breaks and $100K+ pensions. The messages gets lost as time progresses.
somehow I manage to leave my intelligence and decorum at the door wherever I go. I doubt your journal will be an exception to that - not on the rug
What the F&#* is a decorum? - Mr. Anthony