That's closer to what I'm talking about.I'm really sorry... but any women who are trying to speak for all women in saying that "Women always feel something(emotional) during sex" should really just stop.
And no. Women who enjoy sex sans emotional ties are not "trying to be like men". WTH?
People are simply different. SOME people do want/form emotional connection with physical connection, others don't always.
Sure, I'm not a fan of the one night stand with guys. It did't take me but a couple of shots at that to figure out it was a losing bet. What I did figure out though was that I could find I guy I had great sexual chemistry with but ZERO desire for any actual relationship with and form a consensual booty call partnership with him. Thus I could go on dates with lots of guys I was interested in possibly having relationships with, but not be so goddam horney from lack of sex that I fell right into bed with them at the drop of a hat. It worked great for me. I've not had very many male sexual relationships due to that choice. I have, and have always had, an extremely high libido... I have never felt bad about having these NSA relationships even though back when I was doing it there wasn't even really a name for it like NSA or FWB.
Once a guy I was in a NSA deal with got too friendly and hinted that he wanted "more"... I dropped him immediately as nicely as I could. I was just not interested in a relationship at all. I had made that VERY clear from the beginning.
I did however have a ton of sex with women. A lot of one night stands and some shot term and longer dating.
The one night stands and quickies were all very nice I assure you. No performance issues there unlike with guys. No emotions were necessary. It was just pure sexual energy getting burned and both parties were aware of that. It had exactly zero to do with me thinking about "being like a man" and trying to take my emotions out of the situation. I new I wanted sex, so I had sex. I didn't have any further feelings. Just thanks, that was awesome, and bye.
Sometimes, even for women, sex is just sex.
I'm "old" and married now... married for 15 years... and I LOVE that emotional connection. We don't need sex to feel connected, sometimes just a good hug or cuddle and chat in bed does that, but we still have really good sex even after all these years.
However, the "just sex" was really good back in the day too.
It's also a perfect example of getting what you want and need out of a situation instead of whining that not everyone sees it your way or giving up if it's not given to you.