OP it doesn't sound like you want to date, you want to have sex. Stick to adult friend finder and sites like Craig's List fling ads that don't have women who are mostly looking for love. No point in wasting anyone's time including yours.
I met my girlfriend online and i hope my future is like j3nn and aliphian. We are spending a lot of time together and i hope we end up happy together. Right now, i am saving up for a ring and hopefully start a family soon. So, i definitely recommend online dating, especially at perfectmatch. If you want to know about perfectmatch, you can check out www.freedatinghelper.com/reviews/perfect-match/ to get user feedbacks.
Last edited by PandaBoy; 06-14-2013 at 11:16 PM.
you can't tell me you aren't tempted to sign up for zombie dating
yeah you are
Build a man a fire and he's warm for a day. Set a man on fire and he's warm for the rest of his life.
Woah.... 40's?? That sounds ridiculous to me. Thoughtful moment where I wonder if none of my peers are any good....
Pretending that's true, there's a lot that honesty and realism would fix in this situation. If women started thinking they wanted sex and conversation rather than a long-term commitment, they would spend time finding men who could provide that. As it is, women often try and try and try to find their white knight (a totally mythical creature). When they've held their metaphorical breath as long as they can hold it, they take a breath by getting drunk and finding some supposedly shitty lay that makes them feel terrible. Then, they wake up and want the white knight even more. The women need to just appreciate sex and conversation. It will end this moral bullshit. They'll experience more kinds of men. They'll find someone (who there's a good chance they wouldn't have met) who will satisfy them for a long time if they decide to eventually commit.
Then on the side of men, men would begin to focus on satisfying women with sex and conversation rather than stupid shit like flowers and a freshly-pressed collar shirt. Men are out there to impress, so if they don't think much about it, they will always focus energy on what the women claim to be seeking. In this case, it's romantic bullshit, feigned devotion, and wealth transfer.
It never occurs to me that sex has meaning or not.
It never occurs to me that food has meaning or not.
It never occurs to me that a conversation on the street has meaning or not.
It does occur to me that friends, family, community have meaning. It does occur to me that knowledge and human achievement have meaning.
Maybe I have sex enough that I don't stress on it like those who don't. Maybe this allows my moral compass to be worried about actual issues and my soul to be enjoying the joy of life.
Women are too easy??? Fuck no, they're not.
Sex is a lot like socialization. It's having a conversation but with your body. How about we stop thinking it has to do with wealth transfer like traditional marriage tried to make it into. Would you want to have to walk into a bar and only get to talk to someone if you proved your loyalty, support, and on top of all that, the fact that you are a good conversationalist with a chemistry connection with the person you want to talk to??? That's exhausting.
Last edited by wiltondeportes; 06-08-2013 at 01:29 AM.
I think feminism is accused for all the world's problems by guys who actually just have problems themselves and don't have enough courage to admit that what is happening could be partially THEIR fault (and certainly partially the fault of particular woman they talk to) and NOT the feminism movement's fault.
I once lumped feminism into the whole "Political Correctness" thing that seemed like a panacea. In hindsight, it was a bunch of whining, obsessive nostalgia, and a lack of courage to man up and change my own situation. Plus, I've learned more about general governance, so I have different opinions on the best solutions there too.