Really the thing is that like, no one acknowledges at all that there is pressure on the dude I think- just in this thread of course there are how many "of course anyone can point at me and I will fuck them immediately!" male-poster comments. I have a theory that literally nothing true has ever been spoken about the penis, so you should maybe take all that with a grain of salt.
"Ah, those endless forests, and their horror-haunted gloom! For what eternities have I wandered through them, a timid, hunted creature, starting at the least sound, frightened of my own shadow, keyed-up, ever alert and vigilant, ready on the instant to dash away in mad flight for my life. For I was the prey of all manner of fierce life that dwelt in the forest, and it was in ecstasies of fear that I fled before the hunting monsters."
Jack london, "Before Adam"