I swapped out my pillow for a firmer one that we keep on hand (it's one of the ones Husband bought and put away after it didn't work for him.) We'll see if that one works. My previous one (as in used up until last night) has a tendency to be fluffy everywhere EXCEPT where my head is, courtesy my tendency to move my shoulder/ head towards the wall at the head of the bed during the night.
Ok, I really need to get to bed now. Laundry's done. (By the by, if used in the correct concentration, Dawn (yes, the dish soap) is a killer grease remover from clothing.)