For me the list is small. BBQ grill, tongs (SS ones for the grill and wooden ones for inside. I really like the wooden ones!. I lost my nice SS ones, anyone seen them?), cast iron skillet, spatula, SS pot for soupier things, 1 chef knife, 1 pairing knife, cutting board. That's about the all the items that get daily use.
It's grandma, but you can call me sir.