Feminism is just totally alien to me because I am a white Christian and grew up around the same. In high school, there were a sizable number of Arabs and blacks, but they were socially even more conservative, if anything. It wasn't until I went to (community) college that I was exposed to feminist orthodoxy with regularity.
Because, like communism (Marx, Lenin, Trotsky, etc.) feminism is a Jewish creation (Friedan, Steinem, etc.), whereas I was relatively cloistered around Christians. It's simply the product of a culture that I can't relate to - literally like a totally different language.
So I don't bother trying to debate the claims of feminists anymore than I try to debate in Mandarin or Farsi.