just like women can get pregnant with a diaphragm, or even on the pill, condoms can break. how is that "just" the guy's fault? as far as i'm concerned, condoms are pretty good at preventing std's, but not so great at not making babies. i have always felt it's far more incumbent upon the woman to be fastidious in her choice and execution of b/c so she's not left with an unwanted pregnancy.
the whole "golden vagina" thinking of sex as currency makes me nuts. that "allowing" a guy to have sex with you means you're speshul is just juvenile. most women outside of their teens are sexually active.
also, if you're out of high school and a guy is "pushing" for sex? you're both doing it wrong.
As I ate the oysters with their strong taste of the sea and their faint metallic taste that the cold white wine washed away, leaving only the sea taste and the succulent texture, and as I drank their cold liquid from each shell and washed it down with the crisp taste of the wine, I lost the empty feeling and began to be happy and to make plans.
– Ernest Hemingway