Hey, I'm down with this! Anything to have sex without a condom...
Originally Posted by RichMahogany
Well, my sanity is always under question, so there's that..
Originally Posted by canio6
But seriously, I am fine with a guy needing his own space. What I dont like is this presumption that it's a purely male thing. I feel like a guy gets almost defensive in thinking that a woman is infringing on HIS space. He projects a lot, and then he puts up these walls... when really, I need a lot of space too, but I go about it in a different way.
Instead of addressing this in an accusatory way ("What's wrong with you?"), maybe I could talk to him about generally how much space we need in a relationship? Probably guys will think there's no need to talk about it, but honestly, I'm sick of not being direct with my partners. The guess work / mind games are horribly frustrating to me.
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