I think this is great advice - thank you! Possibly a mistake I made in the past was telling the guy at the wrong time, and telling him the heaviest thing first. I don't feel the need to do that this time: I think the best option is to first tell him that it's been a while since I had sex, and see where it goes from there.
Originally Posted by badgergirl
Originally Posted by namelesswonder
I'm not disagreeing about foreplay before sex: what I mean is that I find it weird to do all those intimate things without it leading to sex. I don't know if I could just get raunchy with him without having sex... I'd feel like a teenager. Is that weird?!
Originally Posted by turquoisepassion
I really, really relate to this. I was an idiot in the past: I kept looking for a guy to "fix" me and in the end I always felt let down because only I knew what I needed to heal. Then I went to the other extreme and tried to do it by myself, but what I'm realising through this discussion is that asking a guy to hold your hand isn't the same as jumping on his back when he's trying to cross the river
Originally Posted by girlhk
"I think the basic anti-aging diet is also the best diet for prevention and treatment of diabetes, scleroderma, and the various "connective tissue diseases." This would emphasize high protein, low unsaturated fats, low iron, and high antioxidant consumption, with a moderate or low starch consumption.
In practice, this means that a major part of the diet should be milk, cheese, eggs, shellfish, fruits and coconut oil, with vitamin E and salt as the safest supplements."
- Ray Peat