Hey - sorry guys, if there is any reading - which I'm not quite sure why you're reading - but whatever

GIRLS! I need help! I've been suffering with hot flashes and night sweats for 2 years now! I need to find a natural, healthy way to turn down the waterworks! I will wake up 8 times a night feeling like I've been under the broiler and in a puddle of sweat! (for some weird reason my husband thinks its sexy, so at least I'm not grossing HIM out - but it sure grosses ME out!)

Anybody have any suggestions for an herb or anything? ANYTHING except HRT - I don't want to go that route.