If you were actually following along with the whole conversation and listening to me, you would have seen that I wasn't being rejected by girls because of my intelligence, therefore your advice was useless. I was just bored and not connecting, which I said a few posts back was actually because I was closed off emotionally.
After that and your snobby correction, I'm just going to assume you're full of hot air.
There is an edge to certain types of really smart, well educated people that I don't respond well to. It's not a problem with them, it's just a bit of a personality trait I don't care for.I was just bored and not connecting, which I said a few posts back was actually because I was closed off emotionally.
It sounds like you enjoy the company of women in Florida who are probably a little more down to earth than women in California (you are from California, correct?). I feel like southerners and Midwesterners tend to get a long, while east coasters and west coasters tend to get along.
Honestly, maybe you just need a change of geography. I mean, at some point you meet people you can relate to, but you need to keep your mind open and keep meeting different types until something clicks. But you also have to realize that if you don't connect with someone, that the problem is not with them (or you), it's just a miss. For example, artsy, hipster people make me cringe. It's not that they are bad, I just prefer the company of redneck types, LOL!
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Anyways, I think women in California are more power hungry, and women in Florida are sweeter, less fearful, less stuck up. It's not really accurate to call it feminism either. I met a couple girls last night who believed in feminist ideals yet retained their ladiness.
You're basically right on the part about 'misses'.
Actually, I met a couple guys at the bar that I had good conversations with too, and now I'm thinking that this phenomenon is not limited to females. But of course we are generalizing hardcore right now.
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