The only piece of advice I would give would be to relax.
It sounds as if you're really stressing about the whole thing. This way of life works because it is an enjoyable process and therefore sustainable.
I still have around 20lbs to lose and am losing 'weight' at a painfully slow rate. Even the tape measure is showing very minimal results, however I just bought a bra about 3 sizes smaller than my last one and I'm wearing a pair of jeans today that a month ago were too tight, but now are actually a bit too big.
Eat..(more than 1100 calories, which must be miserable), keep lifting weights, sleep, and don't forget to play and enjoy life. It may not happen quickly, but it will happen - if you relax and let it. Stressing about what the scale says is a sure fire way to sabotage yourself.