Dang Ci, you take way to little control in your life. I dont know if you realize this but you are smoking hot. You could literally do whatever you want, you could take control your relationship if you wanted or just leave and be fine. You should not let this guy dominate you.
That said, dont let it go to your head and because a horrible bitch that uses her looks to get anything and ruin people lives. But you definitely could be making more decisions in your relationship if you grew some balls, metaphorically speaking.