I don't know hon... I feel your pain, but I'm not sure how to address the situation.
Originally Posted by CiKi90
I actually have distanced myself from people at various times in my life, and when we've come back together I haven't necessarily had a big talk with them before we reignited the relationship. First we started talking about nothing: the talk came later. Would you feel comfortable making contact with her and not talking about things? From other things you've told me, she sounds a bit confrontational, so maybe this wouldn't be possible. I do think it's healthy though, cos' then you're re-establishing the friendship in lightness, not in the shadow of the past.
THe main thing you need to ask yourself through is - do you feel stable enough to start to build new boundaries with your sister? I think a big danger would be if you contact her now out of guilt and end up apologising for pulling away from her. I think you need to be clear in your heart that you did what you had to do, and you can feel compassion for her, but your relationship has to change now.
Great news about the SO though! Permanent change is gradual.
In relation to the hunger signals, this is a wild shot, but... stress hormones go up at night. Maybe your hunger signals are driven by stress? And maybe you're also just hungry after not eating all day. You also stay up quite late. Why don't you want to eat at night?
PS. I answered your question about grated courgettes on my journal
Last edited by YogaBare; 05-20-2013 at 04:16 PM.
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