Aw, no worries my MDA sister. I appreciate that you appreciate it!
I really don't know what your relationship with exercise is... But my impression is that you're quite a driven, high energy person, maybe a bit type A? A lot of people get obsessive about exercise, or something, but it doesn't mean they have a disorder. What would you define as exercise bulimia, or an unhealthy relationship with it?
I would say that you're more than weight restored. I can see that your relationship with food is getting healthier! Your process seems to be gradual, and all process is non linear, so of course you will slip up. I think partially you're probably not eating enough (you prob don't want to hear that) and are genuinely hungry, and then at other times you get stressed and you turn to food to bring you relief. I can't help with the latter as I'm still doing it, but I'm not binging anymore, and I'm sure it's because I'm not restricting. There's no other explanation for it! You don't need to stop restricting, but its something to think about. And I'm not suggesting you "eat a ton", like I did. I think that approach would be way too extreme for you.
Who would someone go to about getting blood tests in the US? In Poland you can go to clinics, in the UK your GP does them. I'd recommend getting the blood work done and if anything looks screwy then go to an Endo with the results. You don't have to take anything you don't want to, but it's worth getting their opinion so you have all the options. They'd also know how your contraceptive was effecting you.
Regarding the dream: I think it's more important to ask what the symbols in the dream (rape, repair guy) represent and mean to you. The reason I asked if you had it before was cos' sometimes people have recurring dreams like that, particularly after negative sexual experiences. So it can be literal / emotional, as well as symbolic.
"I think the basic anti-aging diet is also the best diet for prevention and treatment of diabetes, scleroderma, and the various "connective tissue diseases." This would emphasize high protein, low unsaturated fats, low iron, and high antioxidant consumption, with a moderate or low starch consumption.
In practice, this means that a major part of the diet should be milk, cheese, eggs, shellfish, fruits and coconut oil, with vitamin E and salt as the safest supplements."
- Ray Peat