My son just had his first solid food yesterday (avocado! no cereal for him!).

When I drop him off at daycare, the kids are usually eating breakfast, which is almost always cereal & milk and a cup of fruit. I'm not sure what the typical lunch is, I'm guessing it is SAD-healthy because in the daycare's parent handbook they talk about how they strive to provide nutritious meals for the kids.

How do you balance your kid's nutrition versus not being singled-out from his peers for being "the kid who has to eat special food"? Should I even worry about what he eats at daycare? At home he will be eating mostly primal, obviously.