
Originally Posted by
Fantazmic
Hi
My Mum has Lewy Body Dementia and she had a very unusual onset which meant the Doctors didnt pick it up until the symptoms were very obvious. My Mums main symptoms came on after a fall where she hit her head and she literally woke up with bi polar. So she was diagnosed with that first before the Lew Body Dementia became obvious.
Something I will say to you is that the disease progression is very cruel and very individual. My mother had quite an early onset ( early 60's) and I was told, once she was diagnosed late 60's, that she would most likely have a very rapid progression of the illness. She is now 79 and bedridden and it has been a long hard and distressing haul which we are still trying to help my Mum cope with. My Mums symtoms are both physical and mental although she still knows who we all are she is unable to even read a newspaper or follow anything on the tv as it is all now too complicated or fast moving for her. She cannot do a thing for herself and because of her strictures she cannot even scratch her own face.
We did try Aricept and she had convulsions and so had to stop.
I guess what I am trying to say in telling you about my Mum is that every moment your Mum has where she is able to account for herself, and do things for herself is precious. Once the disease symtoms have shown themselves from my experience there is very little that can be done. You just have to go with it and cope as best you can.
So.....encourage her to enjoy every moment....if she wants to eat rubbish food and have fun doing things you wouldn't recommend to prolong her life...let her. Honestly she may be in for a very unpleasant time of it later on and so really every moment of independence she has now is precious.
Take care and my best regards to you and your Mum at such a difficult time.