Is anyone else out there breastfeeding?
Please tell me I am not the only one holding onto weight like crazy! For the past couple weeks I have been much more strict, and the only result was a drop in supply. This is so frustrating. I thought breastfeeding was supposed to make weight loss so easy---this is serious misinformation. I guess it works for some people, not me for sure!
I am not breastfeeding, but I've read on some diet boards that there are two hormonal reactions--you either drop weight easily while breastfeeding or you cannot lose an ounce until you're finished breastfeeding. There doesn't seem to be any middle ground, and it's impossible to control how your own body will respond.
If you're not going to be able to lose weight until you've finished breastfeeding, you need to just focus on nourishing yourself and your child during this time.
How long have you been nursing? Are you exclusively nursing?
I nursed my daughter for 15 months. I don't thing the weight really started coming off till 8 mo. Or so. Also, if you are restricting calories too much, your body may be holding on to weight b/c it feels too deprived.
My advise: stop stressing- cortisol levels effect weight-loss. Focus on good sources of fat and protein to keep milk production. Focus on the health of your baby. If you are exclusively breast-feeding, milk supply is far more important than losing weight.
I breastfed 3 children - all to around a year old when they weaned by themselves. I did not lose one kilo until they stopped feeding. You won't get this time back again. Enjoy nourishing your baby and getting the right nutrition for him/her. These few months are just a dot in the timeline of you and your baby - don't compromise your supply.
I used to look sideways in envy at other mothers who said they were losing weight and feeding - I just didn't. But you will - just a bit later than you would like! So just think of this time as a few months where you chill out about your body's size, and appreciate the magical/incredible job it is doing to keep your baby healthy and growing...
Thank you for chiming in! I have been so discouraged because most of my friends either don't BF very long, or lose easily. I have been worried about my supply the past few days, and I ate a bunch of pizza one night (I know, slap my hand, gluten bad) and the next day got more during my one daily pumping session. I think I am going to have to eat more, now I just need to eat good while increasing!
Originally Posted by Rueben
I've been nursing six months, exclusively except for a couple tablespoons of fruit or veg here and there since we started solids a month ago.
Originally Posted by primalmontana
Cortisol may be playing a big part here because we (i.e., baby) haven't been sleeping too well. I feel fine but I know five hours of sleep, and not even all together, is not enough.
My weight just fell off with my first two kids while breastfeeding, but is hanging on with Number 3. I nurse exclusively, and I'm eating better than I ever have, so I'm thinking there's nothing to do but be patient.
First of all, I want to say "HEY!" to everyone...I have a hard time staying on the Paleo/Primal wagon while pregnant...lol.
I had my little guy 2 weeks ago (3rd baby, but it's been 9 yrs since the last) so we are exclusively breastfeeding, too. I really hope the weight comes off, I have 10 lbs to get to pre preg, but I need to lose another 20 that I put on last year when I quit smoking. I was tinkering with my birth control to see if that was the reason I couldn't shake the weight, and hello, surprise baby.
I think it is different for everyone, and I am wondering how age plays into it too, I am 39 this time around...It might not be as easy as it was 10 yrs ago...I had my girls in 02 and 03 and gained 50lbs with each, and lost it in a few months. I gained 35 with this one..sigh..we will just have to wait and see. I certainly didn't eat so well back then!
I agree that it is more important to keep up supply and nutrition then to worry about the scale...easier said than done!
The first year of the childs life is just as importent as pregnancy as far as development for the rest of his life. Dont think about fat loss, think about eating the most nutrient dense diet you can. The weight will come off but it can take over a year.
Hey! Thanks for chiming in. Let us know how it goes for you. So strange how it is different with each babe. I am on my first, so I have not idea what might happen next time. I am early thirties, started out overweight, barely gained while pregnant, then started gaining like crazy while BFing! One of the reasons I loved being pregnant was I could literally eat anything I wanted, and not gain.
Originally Posted by Juliemama
I definitely don't want to sacrifice my supply to weight loss but... isn't there a way I can have both? Please! At least it's winter so I don't have to be seen in shorts or a swim suit.