If it's directed at me, how am I punishing myself?
I wholeheartedly disagree with that no passion/sex equals platonic friendship. That isn't my experience at all.
I am sorry that relationship was so damaging for you, BB. It sounds like you are in a better place now.
And I hear what you are saying cori, but it does happen that sexuality ceases for some through accident/illness. Would your love end?
I'm unconditionally committed now. He's proven all he needs to prove to me. No more disclaimers for us.