Should I be afraid of my appearance? How do I have more confidence?
Situation: I had a wonderful relationship with a guy for three years, we then proceeded to break up and have been apart for two years. We have recently had phone conversations and one interaction. We are now looking towards hanging out and seeing what happens.
I am 10 pounds heavier than when I was in a relationship with him. I am afraid he will not like my body and I cant even fathom him touching me with my extra pudginess. I actually told him it bothered me in one of our conversations & (from the one time he has seen me) he said I look good. I am working towards getting back to my natural weight, though right now I am what I am. We will be getting together tomorrow evening
All I know to do right now is find a nice outfit that still fits and hope we still connect like we did two years ago, we were very close.
Suggestions for a self conscious girl ?