Hah, I'm single and not falling apart, but I'm a weird age.
Are you working on your own beliefs? Whatever church you decide on might be a place to find ladies.
On another note, I'm not sure that Gerald Gardner founded Wicca. From what I understand, he just collected the pagan traditions into one logical place and construct. It's not as if Gardner saw the gods himself, as Joseph Smith did* when he founded Mormonism, or that guy who "founded" the Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster as a spoof. It is believed that Gardner cooked up the Wheel of the Year, but that also seemed to be a codification of older traditions.
UU churches are pretty varied. Last week, mine held a Winter Solstice ceremony, complete with leaders in garish robes drawing a circle. I really liked it. Then last night there was a Christmas Eve service with the familiar hymns. Something for everyone I guess.
*Fun fact: Joseph Smith recounted that his first vision of the Lord occurred when he was meditating in "a grove of trees." Even Smith needed a little help from mother nature.
5'0" female, 45 years old. Started Primal October 31, 2011, at a skinny fat 111.5 lbs. Low weight: 99.5 lb on a fast. Gained back to 115(!) on SAD chocolate, potato chips, and stress. Currently 111.