Sounds like you're doing great. Well done on the weight loss so far, all the best with the muscle building and health improvements you are sure to find from primal.
Comment on the pancake, I've been making these lately too and find I can do one egg to half a banana for even better results in cooking them. I also add 1T cocoa for chocolate pancakes.
PS I don't find your dark chocolate shocking at all - it is a great snack. If you want to continue a bit more with weight loss maybe you don't need the morning banana and afternoon milkshake. Three meals a day is plenty, and some people easily go to even fewer (but larger) meals.
Best wishes from another primal eater Down Under.