It is sort of recurring. I do plan to talk to him about how it makes me feel AGAIN. We have hashed it all out before. I am hoping he was venting and cooled off today. It isn't about some rude 20something hostess, it is really about his frustration with his life choices and success. He has been applying for jobs for 4 years and hasn't had any interviews. That is bc 80% of jobs come from someone you know unless you have an amazing resume and he doesn't. He hasn't wanted to invest any time into networking and creating professional contacts, he is Mr. I don't have the time. No, you don't make it a priority. I am a super networker, overachiever with a great resume and professional network and I never make it past the interview. I know how hard it is to find a job. I have compassion. I just am tired is all. I know he is, but hell, I am too.