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    So... What are my options?
    well then

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    to not believe everything you see on the internet is the right way to do things once you get older and married
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gadsie View Post
    So... What are my options?
    What do you mean?

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    This is clearly a very individual thing, but it is interesting and I'm sure there is some truth to the damaging effects of it, again, for certain individuals (I would say kids, or those that got into "serious" porn early in their lives)

    Personally, I know porn hasn't affected me negatively, I haven't lost my ability to "simply close my eyes," and I don't seek more hardcore/bizarre shit, it turns me off actually. I still prefer regular, simple heterosexual porn - I don't even care much for girl-on-girl stuff, and don't quite understand the appeal (threeway porn with 2 girls though, different story, I believe the male component has to be presented for me to be able to suspend my belief and be more a part of it, you know?)

    I think anything you can control and incorporate into your life is healthy, and safe - everything that is abused, is not.

    Kids that simply don't know what the hell communication even is, probably go at it differently if they've been exposed to a lot of pornography, and girls might be victims to that sort of thing (and vice versa - as we know plenty of females enjoy porn) but again, is that the fault of pornography? or more an overall lack of respect and understanding for your mate, even if he/she is just that in the moment - I would say it's more the latter, with some help (on the "creativity" side) from the former.

    So, thanks for putting the information out there, some might benefit from it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DavidBrennan View Post
    What do you mean?
    Nah I was just joking. I'm 15 you know....

    internet is pretty much the only place..
    well then

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gadsie View Post
    So... What are my options?
    Watch a documentary on how porn movies are made... you'll see how ridiculous the pretend sex is and how it should not be emulated in real life.

    If you are going to fap to porn... just like all things... use it, don't let it use you.
    It's really not the end of the world if you do it sometimes.
    Of course if you find yourself spending hours everyday doing it... stop that and get a life kid!
    You'll be fine.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gadsie View Post
    So... What are my options?
    a) youtube for that MTV "true life" show "I'm addicted to porn"
    b) ask yourself if you're like those people

    if the answer is no, you're good. Also, never EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER stop using condoms, even if you think you want kids. YOU DON'T.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iniQuity View Post
    a) youtube for that MTV "true life" show "I'm addicted to porn"
    b) ask yourself if you're like those people

    if the answer is no, you're good. Also, never EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER stop using condoms, even if you think you want kids. YOU DON'T.
    That's GOLD right there! 100% truth.

    Also... once you're older and settle down a bit and in a LTR... vasectomy!
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    Quote Originally Posted by iniQuity View Post
    So, thanks for putting the information out there, some might benefit from it.
    No problem, thanks for the thoughtful response.

    I totally agree that everybody is unique (just the same as some lucky bastards can subsist on Domino's Pizza and Mountain Dew and still maintain physiques like Brad Pitt in 'Fight Club'!) Personally, I like to think that I was probably in the middle ground as far as porn consumption goes. The main reasons I gave it up about two years ago were (a) the challenge (I quit smoking at this same time), and (b) the amount of time I would waste trolling through it. Like compulsive gamblers not realizing that it's 6 AM already and they've spent ten hours at the damn slot machine.

    Personally, I don't think that anybody should consume it, but I also think that it's completely up to each individual to weigh the costs and benefits for themselves, and to exercise discipline where it's needed.

    Here's an apropos quote:

    "A good man, though a slave, is free; but a wicked man, though a king, is a slave. For he serves not one man alone, but what is worse, as many masters as he has vices." -St. Augustine

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    Quote Originally Posted by DavidBrennan View Post
    So you need porn to get off?
    No, but I want to have "relations" 7-10x/week, most women don't and won't. I prefer the real thing, and if I'm being satisfied I don't look at porn.

    My ex used to tell me to go watch porn and help myself, so I would leave her alone lol.

    I'm not a sex addict or a porn addict, I just have a high libido. Porn doesn't interfere with my relationships, you could even say it helps, because without it I would probably piss most women off (i.e. all he wants is sex, all the time).
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