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    JMO~ I think you need to pack her up and send her back to her mommy so she can finish growing up. She is acting like a spoiled child~ you know you deserve better than that!

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    I agree - she sounds incredibly immature. But she also matches the description to a tee of a family acquaintance who was physically abused as a child. Has your GF gone through any childhood trauma? It may explain her behaviour. She might be better off seeking therapy.

    If this is not the case, however, yeah, she's beyond ridiculous.

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    You don't have a girlfriend, you've picked up a leech...a malignant external tumor. You should marry her now! That way she can take hurry up and take most of your shit, screw your friends and some random guys, kick you out of your own house, then find some new sucker to make miserable while you still pay her bills and yours. You'll still be miserable as hell but at least you'll be relieved to not have her around anymore and maybe you'll learn something.

    Or you could just remove the tumor, take the red pill, and move on with your life.

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    Westly...

    Holy crap, there are people with mental disabilities that have jobs, use public transportation, can clean and can cook a meal. Very few people are that helpless that they require assistance.

    None of us are perfect, but truly, she sounds like a leach. It has nothing to do with dietary choices. She sounds like a lazy person. Let her go. She will drag you down. Find someone your equal.

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    Hi Westly,

    Yay! I hope it helps! I probably need to reread it as well, some of it I do pretty well with... but other stuff is a bit more of a challenge to apply!

    Good luck, I bet we'll be seeing a success story out of you in the not too distant future

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    Quote Originally Posted by Westly View Post
    Hi there again all!

    Yeah, I support her 100%. The arrangement was supposed to be that she takes care of the house and cooks while she looks for work, and I bring home the Applewood smoked bacon (The only kind she'll eat...). Unfortunately, it's been months and months now, and while she does cook (Sometimes) she doesn't really take care of the house. I'm stuck taking care of all of my own things (Laundry, some cooking, cleaning) while she hangs out online a whole lot.

    Anyway, she wants Chinese tonight, and I'm going to have trout. Because rainbow trout beats crap fast food Chinese any day!

    I think I'm going to take some pictures, and show it off on my blog as well. Thanks for taking a look at it. It helps to be reminded that I was VERY excited about the things I was doing for myself, and to be excited for it once again. ^_^

    Two trout...and...hm. What goes with trout? I've always been bad about sides!!
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    Hey all!

    We had another epic fight on Monday, and I've started taking more external facing steps on getting help through this. I've signed up for a counselor, just waiting for them to get back to me on my appointment, and I've also made an appointment to talk with an abuse specialist. We're playing phone tag at the moment, but...I think shit's getting real. I'm getting my act together, and gears are beginning to turn.

    You'll also all be happy to know that I'm already 70%/30% primal, and working very hard on getting that other 30% into gear! I've also started walking more, have asked around at the office to see if anyone else would like to begin a lunchtime walking club, and have started doing the step 1 of Convict conditioning again.

    All of those improvements are aimed towards getting my self esteem back, as well as getting me into a more emotionally comfortable place. Step two will be taking my life back. After that...we'll see about conquering the world.

    I really just have to say, thanks for all of your support and the ears and advice you're all lending. If you've ever been in a similar situation, you know that you can start doubting yourself, and start feeling "Well, maybe I am the abusive one" but having a place to ask others "Is this normal?" is so very, very important.

    So, thank you all. ^_^

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    I mean there's so many ants in my eyes! And there are so many TVs, microwaves, radios... I think, I can't, I'm not 100% sure what we have here in stock.. I don't know because I can't see anything! Our prices, I hope, aren't too low!

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    Westly, Good for you! I am happy for you that you are taking steps to take your life back. It won't be easy, but you can do it!!!
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    yay you!

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