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    Unhappy Giving up on husband

    I am saddened that my husband just won't stick to primal living. He eats crap, his cholesterol levels are atrocious, he is looking old and frail, doesn't exercise. At this point I need to take care of myself and think about our children. I just can't spend more energy on someone who'd rather take stains than eliminate grains.

    Just a sad moment for me having to realize it - one I wanted to share with you.

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    Not your issue. He's an adult and he's going to make choices that he can live with. Get on with your own life, and your own eating beliefs. Since when did our partners have to be 'just like us?'
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    F, 48, 5'10"
    Start Date: 25-06-12 @ 161lbs
    Goal Reached: 30-09-12 @ 143lb. Now bouncing between 145lb - 149lb. I'd like less bounce and more consistency :-)

    Started Cross Fit 20.12.12 ---- Can't wait to submit my success story on the 1st anniversary of starting primal.

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    You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. All you can do is lead by example and do what you can to keep the garbage food out of the house. I have the same problem with my dad; blood pressure meds, cholesterol meds and it is looking more and more like he will end up on insulin. As much as it pains me to see him killing himself, he is an adult and it is his decision to do as he pleases.

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    Yes, but I dwell in possibilities of what could have been in 10, 20, 30 years from now... I know what's coming.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Karo View Post
    Yes, but I dwell in possibilities of what could have been in 10, 20, 30 years from now... I know what's coming.
    I'm so sorry to hear. It can't be easy, hang in there...

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    My man isn't too interested either, but he is making changes, he can see by my moods and steady weight that it's helped me so much, he now uses less diary, has tried some almond meal alternatives to cakes, chooses sweet potato over white potato and eats less bread in general, he is also happy to eat the grain free dinner and lunch I provide him each day, it's just his snacking which is bad. I can accept he will never be primal, but I know he is making great changes which may mean a longer happier, life, that's a very good thing. As I see it even if he has taken on just a few "primal habits" I'm happy!

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    Yea...that's a tough one. Just lead by example and hope he changes his mind. Good Luck!

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    Grass is greener syndrome poor beta that is your husband he has my sympathy
    Starting Date: Dec 18, 2010
    Starting Weight: 294 pounds
    Current Weight: 235 pounds
    Goal Weight: 195 pounds

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    Quote Originally Posted by kenn View Post
    Grass is greener syndrome poor beta that is your husband he has my sympathy
    kenn

    a wise man once said that if all you have is a hammer, every problem looks like a nail

    what i'm trying to say is, i think you have some tunnel vision going on
    beautiful
    yeah you are

    Baby if you time travel back far enough you can avoid that work because the dust won't be there. You're too pretty to be working that hard.
    lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by bloodorchid View Post
    kenn

    a wise man once said that if all you have is a hammer, every problem looks like a nail

    what i'm trying to say is, i think you have some tunnel vision going on
    Please, the OP is thinking about divorce and breaking up her family in the long run
    Starting Date: Dec 18, 2010
    Starting Weight: 294 pounds
    Current Weight: 235 pounds
    Goal Weight: 195 pounds

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