This really saddens me. Why? At first, my mom and I couldn't convince dad to give up grains. We just let him alone and he eventually read Wheat Belly by himself and decided to go grain free. Now he looses more weight than I do every week, and he's off his diuretic. He's still on statins but he says he's feeling much better. Don't lose hope, just leave the information around. Maybe he'll find it.