yes, definitely cut out the chocolate and the nuts. and the raisins. and the big giant bowls of carby squash!!
if meat's not your thing (i go in phases), eat more eggs and fish like salmon and sardines.
am quite sure nobody looks at you and thinks, "WOW -- she really needs to lose 3 pounds. what a whale!!" ya know? but i understand that you need it for you. it may just be more a matter of patience and body recomp, vs. a number on the scale. i will be 49 in a few days and very little inside me works like it used to.
i'd be a vegetarian if bacon grew on trees.