I feel the same way. And I have been told by my parents no less, who are normally very quick to criticize and very slow to compliment, how confident I look. My mother says I look better than I ever have because I have so much confidence. ( I was the fat kid with glasses and grew up to be the fat chick w/ glasses). So....maybe we are not in the right places?? Honestly, I go to work which is at public school, drive to Tallahassee and spend time w/ my family and run errands around town. Haven't figured out how to get out and meet people. Not to hook up but just to build a social life. Maybe if I did I would be hit on more. I have always looked younger than my age. I am 46 and most people assume I am in my mid thirties which is nice. My hair is longer now and while I am still heavy I have a whole lot more confidence. Not sure why they aren't hitting on me but I have decided they are missing something good
Originally Posted by IcarianVX
A lot of rambling but my point was in all of that, maybe we just aren't in the right places?
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You know all those things you wanted to do: You should go do them.
SW 215 lbs
CW 180 lbs (whole foods/primal eating)
LW 172 lbs
GW 125ish lbs