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    I think a small amount of juicing can be okay for people with severe auto-immune and leaky-gut issues, which is what Phil and Joe (the guys in FSND) had. Why? I read the FSND forums, and everyone was like "what about fiber?!?" But then when people share TMI a lot of them are still crapping great amounts. After reading Gut Sense a few days ago about how some people have an incredible backlog in their intestines from eating way too much fiber and other crappy processed foods, and how a lot of people have damaged their guts, I think an almost-no-volume eating plan for a short amount of time could be helpful. The body stores enough b12 and other nutrients to tide the person over until they start eating easily-digested fats and build out from there. I know Gut Sense has supplements to solve this whole thing, but I am much more in favor of solving digestion issues with actual food.
    why not do it with bone broths then? a bit of butter or coconut oil in there et voila. low-volume, zero-sugar.
    As I ate the oysters with their strong taste of the sea and their faint metallic taste that the cold white wine washed away, leaving only the sea taste and the succulent texture, and as I drank their cold liquid from each shell and washed it down with the crisp taste of the wine, I lost the empty feeling and began to be happy and to make plans.

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    I'm in a similar situation with my MIL, except her problem is fibromyalgia. I have pointed her to countless articles and books that illustrate how this lifestyle can eliminate her pain. She tried primal - for like 2 or maybe 3 months. I don't really think it was that long, but I'll give her the benefit of the doubt. Anyhow, recently, I noticed she's been eating CW foods again, so i sent her a link that was all about how Paleo is the answer to fibromyalgia. It was even written by an MD. She sent me a message saying "I know what foods do and don't bother me. I've been researching fibro for 3 years. I think I deserve some credit for that." I simply said "Ok... well, disregard. Just thought I'd share what I'd stumbled upon".

    while eating Primal, her symptoms did subside, but I don't think they subsided enough for her liking, like she expected to magically be cured overnight b/c she ate a steak instead of spaghetti. To get off of her prescription meds, she turned to pot... cheaper I'm sure, probably more "primal", but totally turns me off. I lost a lot of respect for her when that came into play b/c I'm zero tolerance when it comes to illegal drugs and currently, in Iowa, it's still illegal, even for medicinal purposes.

    So, I gave up with her. I don't feel her pain so I isn't a problem to me if she chooses to eat crap foods.

    I have a runner friend who wants to drop those last 10-15 lbs b/c she thinks it'll shave an extra 20 seconds off her mile pace. Sure, probably would... she asked me what I've been doing b/c I lost 37 lbs doing next to nothing while she runs and runs and runs and runs and....... She seemed interested at first, then quickly backed off saying she's a long distance runner and needs her pasta... sure. Ok. In the meantime, she's eating Nutrisystem cardboard while I'm eating steak and veggies for lunch. "How's that cardboard?", I always want to ask.

    My husband is doing better. He's 6'1" 320 lbs. He was losing weight and stopped. Since he's stopped, he's back on the sugar rushes all the time. Ice cream every night, cookies for snacks (gluten free since I am transitioning my son and now MIL only makes gluten free cookies so son can have some - DH is making the gf thing difficult when I'm not around by providing foods with gluten), etc. He eats primal/paleo meals, but still consumes lots of junk so his weight loss is non-existent.

    SOMEDAY, when they see how young and vibrant and amazing we have become, they will either become envious and join us or they'll continue down their destructive paths. In the meantime, bump up the life insurance policies and keep the health insurance paid up.
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    Oh, couple more examples. A girlfriend is 31 weeks pregnant. Learned she's got gestational diabetes. I know she's relatively open-minded about food and how it affects us b/c her son is autistic and she's recently changed his diet to more closely match the GAPS diet and he has shown significant improvement in his cognitive ability and his ability to socialize and ask for help. I suggested to her that she give up ALL grains, starchy carbs, etc, for the duration of her pregnancy to avoid taking insulin... giving up pasta for someone whose middle name is, according to her, Pasta, is unheard of... ok. enjoy those injections... In the very least, please stop feeding your autistic son canola oil!!

    And now the last example has escaped me... lol
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    this is from another thread, but it's perhaps one of my favorite MDA forum quotes, and it applies directly to some of the friends/family from this thread :-D

    Quote Originally Posted by Knifegill View Post
    People do the same thing to me. They ask, I tell them, and they're sure it would never work for them. It doesn't seem to ultimately matter how the information is presented. Next time I think it'll go like this:

    Well, I went to mount Olympus and duct taped two unicorns together to double their magic, and rode their magic bodies for forty days and forty nights. When I got off, I looked like this. It's great!

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    While my family is not quite as nasty as yours is about it they do tend to be negative about the whole thing. I don't get it. The hardest thing to me is having to cook and not eat out. My sister has three kids and just a crazy schedule. I have offered repeatedly to help her clean out the pantry and go shopping and cook. There is always an excuse. My youngest niece has all kinds of allergies and can't eat dairy or nuts and only limited eggs. Even with all of this out of her diet she still has horrible eczema. My sister will not even entertain the idea that it could be food related. Makes me nuts! I have had to just shut up and let it happen and pray that the kids will get it someday.
    You know all those things you have always wanted to do? You should go do them.

    Nah.. I was always aware "they" were out to get me.. even before I became Primal..... Now I can just run faster if they find me-Dino Hunter

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    I offered to bring a friend meals for a week, so she could try. Nope. I'm still hopeful, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sabine View Post
    I offered to bring a friend meals for a week, so she could try. Nope. I'm still hopeful, though.
    That says a LOT about someone's desires to actually make a change. I entertained the idea of going paleo for a long time before I did it. I finally reached a point of desperation when nothing else was working to lose the weight. I took the plunge and so many other wonderful things happened as a result (no more antidepressants, sciatic pain was greatly reduced, lost 37 lbs). Sadly, the only thing people see is how much weight I've lost, and not even that is enough for people to try it out b/c it's "sooooo restrictive". Um, no it's not, but ok...
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    The saga continues, I will purchase the gaps book for them, but I don't think it will help I tried explaining to them that grains are not as necessary and helpful as they are made out to be. Now my parents harp on me about my grocery list and insist that I need bread and grains, I have lost a bit of weight and they say it's not because of my decreased calories or exercise(I just don't have flash cravings and binges like I used to), they say it's because without grains my body is not absorbing food and that is why I have lost weight. They say I am "killing myself" and "becoming anorexic", and that if I keep it up I will need an eating disorder clinic. I know this is BS, my skin is clearer and softer, my hair is finally gaining density and less is falling out, I am 2 sizes smaller, I sleep better, and I recover from colds more quickly. The real kicker is this: my sister is overweight, and she now feels bad because I weigh less and I am taller, so mom and dad think I should consider the feelings of others, because my improved health makes them feel bad. I give up, I am not going to bother anymore. This backlash has been going on since june, I am not going to argue with them anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahW View Post
    People are addicted to the carbs.

    Funny, when my husband convinced me to do the FSND reboot (juicing) everyone we knew was supportive, "oh yeah, good idea, so healthy, I should do that again myself." But when we switched primal everyone was suddenly "what? oh no, I could never give up pasta! that's crazy!" It was almost a visceral reaction, like if we told them we were becoming cannibals. So, drinking nothing but kale juice for days on end is acceptable, but just cutting out grains is crazy? WTF?
    This is true. You see it all the time. They will do portions..."I can have one slice of pizza on Weight Watchers for X points"... or a 1/4 cup of pasta. I find it insane.
    I also see it with other things, like TV, people think they cannot live without TV, hence they get these constant messages on how to eat.
    It is also amazing how people just won't cut out the grains with GI problems. I suggested it to my sister who has problems, and she went silent. I said, "Try it for 2 weeks.." so she could see if it helps her. Too much trouble. I guess when people get desperate, they will seek out help and stop thinking so in the box.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jenn26point2 View Post
    I'm in a similar situation with my MIL, except her problem is fibromyalgia. I have pointed her to countless articles and books that illustrate how this lifestyle can eliminate her pain. She tried primal - for like 2 or maybe 3 months. I don't really think it was that long, but I'll give her the benefit of the doubt. Anyhow, recently, I noticed she's been eating CW foods again, so i sent her a link that was all about how Paleo is the answer to fibromyalgia. It was even written by an MD. She sent me a message saying "I know what foods do and don't bother me. I've been researching fibro for 3 years. I think I deserve some credit for that." I simply said "Ok... well, disregard. Just thought I'd share what I'd stumbled upon".

    while eating Primal, her symptoms did subside, but I don't think they subsided enough for her liking, like she expected to magically be cured overnight b/c she ate a steak instead of spaghetti. To get off of her prescription meds, she turned to pot... cheaper I'm sure, probably more "primal", but totally turns me off. I lost a lot of respect for her when that came into play b/c I'm zero tolerance when it comes to illegal drugs and currently, in Iowa, it's still illegal, even for medicinal purposes.

    So, I gave up with her. I don't feel her pain so I isn't a problem to me if she chooses to eat crap foods.

    I have a runner friend who wants to drop those last 10-15 lbs b/c she thinks it'll shave an extra 20 seconds off her mile pace. Sure, probably would... she asked me what I've been doing b/c I lost 37 lbs doing next to nothing while she runs and runs and runs and runs and....... She seemed interested at first, then quickly backed off saying she's a long distance runner and needs her pasta... sure. Ok. In the meantime, she's eating Nutrisystem cardboard while I'm eating steak and veggies for lunch. "How's that cardboard?", I always want to ask.

    My husband is doing better. He's 6'1" 320 lbs. He was losing weight and stopped. Since he's stopped, he's back on the sugar rushes all the time. Ice cream every night, cookies for snacks (gluten free since I am transitioning my son and now MIL only makes gluten free cookies so son can have some - DH is making the gf thing difficult when I'm not around by providing foods with gluten), etc. He eats primal/paleo meals, but still consumes lots of junk so his weight loss is non-existent.

    SOMEDAY, when they see how young and vibrant and amazing we have become, they will either become envious and join us or they'll continue down their destructive paths. In the meantime, bump up the life insurance policies and keep the health insurance paid up.

    I notice that women who have Fibromyalgia have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and they obsess about it. So they go to doctors who give them pain killers, etc.

    I've had friends and family think I am crazy for eating like I do...they think I am going to give myself a heart attack. I remember when my grandfather's heart was a problem, and they put him on some Pritikin-ish diet with no meat, lots of pasta, no fats, and I felt so sorry for him. It didn't save him. He really missed his meat.

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