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    1) Stop listening to women about women, most of them give horrible advice despite their intentions

    2) You type too much when you text. Be shorter so you don't fall in these traps.

    3) Think before you type, 2x if needed

    4) Don't over analyze stuff, you will always be second guessing yourself.

    5) Don't take her baits

    6) Don't do long distance relationships

    7) Don't admit to messing up and if you do, don't ask how to fix it unless you're in person with her, sometimes a mere holding of her will save you so much stress from the bs of her thinking she has to hand hold you.

    8) Keep non in person communication to a minimum, you a male you are not suited for it

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    "I should have responded to what a drool-worthy cook you are instead of providing unsolicited "help". I realize why I hurt your feelings now. I am sorry I did."

    It's hard to text with razor sharp claws.
    Dude, if you need to apologize for something like this, you're going down a bad road of being a sub, if you're a sub that's good but if you're not it will eat at you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kenn View Post
    Any that said to do anything but stop texting
    you have a point *brofist*

    Quote Originally Posted by kenn View Post
    Dude, if you need to apologize for something like this, you're going down a bad road of being a sub, if you're a sub that's good but if you're not it will eat at you.
    not necessarily, she's stressed and pmsing and that can make the best of women sensitive anger balls. if he were to stop texting or say 'okay you're angry i'll talk to you when you've had time to calm down' that would be like tossing gas on an emotional fire

    i hate to break it to you, but sometimes you just gotta hug your woman and cave in to her terroristic emotional demands
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    yeah you are

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    Quote Originally Posted by bloodorchid View Post
    not necessarily, she's stressed and pmsing and that can make the best of women sensitive anger balls. if he were to stop texting or say 'okay you're angry i'll talk to you when you've had time to calm down' that would be like tossing gas on an emotional fire
    There's a way to do that right and what was suggested was not the right way

    i hate to break it to you, but sometimes you just gotta hug your woman and cave in to her terroristic emotional demands
    More or less what I was getting in #7, hugging releases oxytocin and helps much more than words generally will at first. Obviously I'm being literal here.
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    who's a big ole teddy bear?
    beautiful
    yeah you are

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    Quote Originally Posted by bloodorchid View Post
    who's a big ole teddy bear?
    Watch your mouth!
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    I'm pretty sure she thought you were saying she was getting fat.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jammies View Post
    I'm pretty sure she thought you were saying she was getting fat.
    Yeah, but for a lot of woman, even "Have you seen my socks?" sounds like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jammies View Post
    I'm pretty sure she thought you were saying she was getting fat.
    Yeah, but in all fairness, when don't women think you're saying that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by RitaRose View Post
    Yeah, but for a lot of woman, even "Have you seen my socks?" sounds like that.
    beat me to it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by RichMahogany View Post
    Yeah, but in all fairness, when don't women think you're saying that?
    I agree - we do tend to hear that an abnormal amount of time. But in this case, I do think it would have been easy to interpret that text as a criticism of something she was doing and the cortisol/belly fat things is so well known that it wouldn't take much to make that leap.
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