Yeah, I understand. Food texture issues are a huge hurdle. Without transitioning your entire household to the same sort of food, it's a losing battle.
Steak, eggs, potatoes - fruits, nuts, berries and forage. Coconut milk and potent herbs and spices. Tea instead of coffee now and teeny amounts of kelp daily. Let's see how this does! Not really had dairy much, and gut seems better for it.