I don't see what is so awesome about being so judgmental.
You know what? My grandmother was fat. Really super fat. I loved my grandmother. It felt good when she hugged me. There's something very comforting and safe about an ample, maternal lady holding you in her arms. My neighbor's mother was fat, too. She made her house the warm and welcoming hearth where all us kids would go to play every day. She was a stern and tough, kind and loving mother to us all. What is awesome is when people are loving, caring and warm. You should always remember that for every person out there that you judge negatively, someone somewhere in the world looks at that person with love.
Female, 5'3", 49, Starting weight: 163lbs. Current weight: 135 (more or less).
I can squat 180lbs, press 72.5lbs and deadlift 185lbs