OMG does BPD ever exist. I have lived it and with it. So does weakness and emotional issues. Call it what you will but denying it does no one any good. We are all of us weak sometimes, sometimes for a very long time. I agree that chemicals can be a bad thing if used too often but everyone's MMV.

Frankly my wife is a pot head and it is the only thing that makes her at all a tolerable human being, otherwise she would be a skittery raging nutter in a sweater with long buckled arms.

Love is good. stick with love. Love everyone and learn how to cook their food, thats what I do.