I don't understand...I mean I am trying to, but I don't. I get that there are lots of women who don't fit the stereotype of what femininity is. Since I don't always either. I burp and fart in public and I call people on it when they call me a lady (frack that bugs me!). I get that some women buy into that idea wholeheartedly and act stupid. I also get that there are women who are mean back stabbers. I have been acquainted with some of them and been stabbed in the back by them.
However, I generally trust men about as far as I could throw one.
In other words, I don't really trust anyone until I get to know them a bit, male or female, and then decide if I can take a risk and make myself more vulnerable. But that is life isn't it? Letting yourself be vulnerable in order to build relationships with people. It's a risk, but one we have to take if we are really going to live.
Female, age 51, 5' 9"
SW - 183 (Jan 22, 2012), CW - 159, GW - healthy.
Met my 2012 goals by losing 24 pounds.
2013 goals are to get fit and strong!