I get on well enough with most people but have no close female friends. I've felt for years as though I belong to a third gender because I have little in common with a lot of women. I do wear some make-up but other than that I'm very low maintenance - I don't like heels, handbags and constricting clothes, cut my own hair, never had any interest in having kids and just don't do the girly stuff. I always wanted to be strong and muscular and kick ass. I love computer games, I go to the gym and, when I was younger and less injury prone, I did Thai boxing. A colleague referred to me as "bloke bird" (which was about right, actually). Now I find almost all my friends are gay men. This isn't a deliberate choice - it just happened that way.