I find it funny that women find enjoying company of other women negative, while men would not feel it is elevating and somehow good to avoid company of the other men. Do you think that treats that you listed as negative, such as stupidity, cruelty and emotional instability are more common in women than men? Have you never met a man deeply proud of his children and putting his heart and time into raising them and, yes, talking about them just as much as their mother? I have seen negative in both men and women, and throughout history men and women both committed both deeds of valor and heinous crimes. Anyway, I feel it is grossly unfair to prefer one sex over the other or think that you can only form a connection with someone who is just like you in character and temperament. I think it is limiting.
I will shut up now.