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    My almost-teen daughter eats our primal meals, but also eats grains and sugar. Not crazy amounts, and not lots of highly-processed junk food, but the usual SAD (ice cream, occasional pie or cupcakes). She is probably about 60/40 paleo

    Some concern that healthy-high-fat PLUS sugar/carbs could lead to gain of fat, especially since she is mid-puberty.


    We discuss eating choices, and how our choices make us feel, and she knows the paleo/primal guidelines, but is somewhat resistant (a teen-thing) in attitude ("but, I like white potatoes..."). Ironically, and happily, her previously heavy-carb-eating previously overweight (now fit and almost trim) dad is the one leading the conversations with her about this. We don't want to put pressure on her it because it seems like that might make a rebellion. And not interested in triggering an eating disorder.

    Thoughts on this?

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    When I was 12 my diet consisted of soda, french fries, white pasta with parmesan, ice cream, soft pretzels, and nacho "cheese" Lunchables, and no one could convince me there was anything wrong with that for pretty much my entire teen years. Definitely be thankful your tween is open-minded--although I agree with you that the sugar+fat combo is dangerous, health is something she needs to learn in her own time. Hopefully being surrounded by a healthy family will eventually move her in the right direction. I have to say that for me, it took going away to college to finally wake me up to how awful my diet made me feel...constantly tired, mentally foggy... You should just keep the conversation around how proper diet is the way towards happiness.. maybe make a point of saying "ugh, I felt so exhausted today until I ate that salad, now I'm ready to go!" etc. and hopefully that will make connections in her mind so next time she's tired she goes for the veggies not the RedBull. Just my 2 cents as a reformed carboholic. Sounds like she's in a good starting place to make health a priority for her whole life! You can't rush these things though...hold tight and know you're doing all the right things by setting a good example

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    And you might wanna just concede the white potato point... or try cooking up sweet potatoes the way you'd normally cook white ones and see if she doesn't end up liking those just as much. I like to fry up sweet potato slices with garlic and some salt and everyone I've fed them to (including my boyfriend who's health knowledge would be basically zero if it wasn't for me grilling him all the time about his habits) has said they smell and taste delicious.

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    Thanks for th input. Patience is definitely part of the process, and learning through experience. And it is certainly nice to see her pouring the EVOO and homemeade mayo on salad

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tallpinespaleo View Post
    My almost-teen daughter eats our primal meals, but also eats grains and sugar. Not crazy amounts, and not lots of highly-processed junk food, but the usual SAD (ice cream, occasional pie or cupcakes). She is probably about 60/40 paleo. Some concern that healthy-high-fat PLUS sugar/carbs could lead to gain of fat, especially since she is mid-puberty. We discuss eating choices, and how our choices make us feel, and she knows the paleo/primal guidelines, but is somewhat resistant (a teen-thing) in attitude ("but, I like white potatoes..."). Ironically, and happily, her previously heavy-carb-eating previously overweight (now fit and almost trim) dad is the one leading the conversations with her about this. We don't want to put pressure on her it because it seems like that might make a rebellion. And not interested in triggering an eating disorder. Thoughts on this?
    Stop buying potatoes & she'll stop eating them. There will be a rebellion, but a hungry tummy will dictate her surrender. My mom said we had to eat what she served us, or we could go hungry, or go begging around the neighborhood for scraps, lol.... She was a ballsy lady who taught me that tough love can be the best love sometimes...
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    1/2 primal is a massive improvement over what a young person would normally eat. There is nothing particularly bad about primal fats in the presence of SAD carbs, weight gain is caused by excess calories (in a healthy young person this is very straightforward, metabolism is high and oriented away from fat gain anyhow) NOT by any certain combo of fat and carbs. Thank your daughter for being open to healthy eating ideas and encourage her to make good choices. White potatoes are semi-primal anyhow *not paleo, but actually not bad for you*. One of the sillier paleo / primal rules is no white potatoes.
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    Is your daughter overweight?
    Fats are healthy, and she should probably have plenty. But when she has plenty fats and protein and nutrients you can add in as much good carbs as long as she doesn't gain too much fat a high carb high fat diet which is healthy won't make her fat or unhealthy unless it's too many calories. Which probably won't be the case very fast in her case. I'm a also a teen and my maintenance level is around 5000 calories..

    Also I think real ice cream is the healthiest unhealthy thing. It's just the sugar. Which is lower on the list to avoid than vegetable oils or wheat.


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    Quote Originally Posted by tfarny View Post
    1/2 primal is a massive improvement over what a young person would normally eat. There is nothing particularly bad about primal fats in the presence of SAD carbs, weight gain is caused by excess calories (in a healthy young person this is very straightforward, metabolism is high and oriented away from fat gain anyhow) NOT by any certain combo of fat and carbs. Thank your daughter for being open to healthy eating ideas and encourage her to make good choices. White potatoes are semi-primal anyhow *not paleo, but actually not bad for you*. One of the sillier paleo / primal rules is no white potatoes.
    We have white & sweet potatoes in our cupboard, And brown rice, oh my! I'm not making rules or demonzing any foods. Hell, I use brown sugar once in a while, when a recipe just cannot work without it... My example of the white potato was from her own text of her daughter's teen rebellion. My son is 6 & he's become very rebellious the last couple of years(which is normal & healthy). Long gone are the days when he was 2 & would eat anything I put on his plate. If I let him get hungry enough, by god, he'll eat his greens & get a 1/2 banana as a reward...I hate using food as reward or punishment, but I/we cannot let the lil guy run the show & dictate eating menus & timings as the adults have to work & he doesn't...
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    My daughter has done some of the reading has pointed out that we can have some white potatoes, so that is probably a good and easy compromise. And she is not overweight. Just trying to find balance as a family (which is primal in and of itself).

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