Well, if attempting to degrade a member who simply gave his/her two cents through juvenile name calling makes you feel better about justifying your weight loss woe's, then whatever floats your boat my dear.
Thank you. I agree with your last paragraph. Chronic dieting and calorie reduction is
typically part of the problem when it comes to a slowed or deregulated metabolism.
THIS ^ I understand that the majority of the people (especially women) on this forum want to lose weight as their main objective. I know that a lot of people have a history of yo-yo dieting and extreme calorie restriction. But weight gain in the sense of re-regulating your metabolism is NOT a bad thing.
It's part of the necessary process. Yet so many women are afraid of it. They're afraid to up their calorie intake because they gain immediately. Well.... duhhh. You screwed up your metabolism from years and years of dieting and crappy eating. Of course you're not going to magically lose weight the moment you up your calories from eating 1000 a day. It takes time. And not just a week or two, or four. Once your metabolism is up to speed where it should be prior to years of destructive dieting and calorie restriction, it will get rid of what it doesn't need: mainly body fat.
Our bodies want stability. This is why many people stay the same weight for the majority of their adult life, only gaining gradually as the years progress due to natural metabolic slow down and decrease in lean mass. If the individual eats a few hundred calorie below maintenance, the body will temporarily slow energy usage. If the individual binges and eats a few hundred calorie above maintenance, then the body will either ramp up the metabolism, or get rid of what it does not need. If by eating a couple hundred extra calories makes you gain "tons of weight rapidly" then that should indicate an underlying health problem which should be addressed rather than using a quick cop-out like severe calorie restriction.
To be honest, I view calorie restriction like I do pills. It may mask the symptoms, it may appear the problem is being solved at face value. But underneath, you're still sick and the problem is still there growing worse and worse. Yes, a calorie deficit needs to be achieved in order to lose weight. BUT that doesn't mean eating 1000 calories a day. That's logically just not healthy unless you're a sedentary old midget (or otherwise have a serious medical condition). Pardon the CW-ness. But that's what I believe. I don't see how someone can have a high quality of life eating so little, and scrutinizing every single bite to ensure they fit his/her minimum nutrients into so little calories. No doubt those deficiencies would eventually take a toll on health in the long run.
It takes a substantial amount of time for the body to heal itself. I've read testimonies where vegans do really well for a long time, and then 6months or 12months down the road they begin having ailments which gradually fix themselves. This is because the body FINALLY has the strength and proper nutrients to combat years and years of damage that it was not able to deal with before. Thinking that being 100% paleo for a month or two is magically going to solve all of your health issues and heal the scars hidden deep within old tissue is very very naive.
Fix your health first. Weight loss will follow suite.
Don't even get me started on women trying to lose vanity weight and getting frustrated when they're not losing 2lbs per week eating practically nothing. Society's "ideal weight" is not
nature's ideal weight. Just because YOU think you need to be 110lbs, or a size 6 and eat 1000 calories, does not mean that's how nature intended your body to be.